Carol J. Elkins
Tue, 02 Aug 2005 12:19:14 -0700
This discussion has occurred several times over this list's history. And every time, there are a few people who respond with "Gee, my ram is really nice." I cringe every time I read that kind of response because it is just inviting disaster. If you have a good-natured ram, good for you. But we don't know how old your ram is or what his pecking order is or any of the other circumstances that can affect a ram's behavior. So I beg you to please not give new shepherds any kind of response that might lead them to believe that THEIR ram might also be an exception to the rule. Let them err on the side of safety. I don't want the new shepherd, or the shepherd with the friendly ram, to come back to this list in a year to tell us that the ram just put them in hospital or killed their grandson. This is a tremendously friendly list and most folks go out of their way not to offend. But when it comes to safety, please take a lesson from Mary. Her email clearly stated that she did not want to offend, but she also was very clear about the danger involved. Don't be afraid to tell list members stuff for their own good. If you don't make it personal, then they won't take offense. And even if you do make it personal, I'd rather have an offended reader than a dead one.
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