White List Management

[vivek mahajan]

I am trying to send mail to james-2.3.2 server from gmail but the following
massage is being generated by gmail. I think its white list management
problem. Please tell me how to handle a white list

This is an automatically generated Delivery Status Notification

THIS IS A WARNING MESSAGE ONLY.

YOU DO NOT NEED TO RESEND YOUR MESSAGE.

Delivery to the following recipient has been delayed:

    ad...@122.168.129.83

Message will be retried for 2 more day(s)

Technical details of temporary failure:
The recipient server did not accept our requests to connect. Learn more at
http://mail.google.com/support/bin/answer.py?answer=7720
[122.168.129.83 (1): Connection refused]

----- Original message -----

MIME-Version: 1.0
Received: by 10.229.11.219 with SMTP id u27mr1534665qcu.10.
1265002528115; Sun,
       31 Jan 2010 21:35:28 -0800 (PST)
From: vivek mahajan <vivek.mahaja...@gmail.com>
Date: Mon, 1 Feb 2010 11:05:08 +0530
Message-ID: <1b1eebb1001312135kd652701mc3355fbcb9a8a...@mail.gmail.com>
Subject: Test Mail
To: ad...@122.168.129.83
Content-Type: multipart/alternative; boundary=0015175767cc540eb7047e835a2a

Test mail