In Russia, people with special needs usually live isolated lives.
They’re unable to study, work or socialise and rarely have friends.
Families often keep them out of sight. But I found a place where
everything is different. Svetlana is a small village four hours away
from St Petersburg. Around 40 people live there in four large houses
organised around a farm with a dairy, a bakery and a sauna. The
community was established in 1992 as part of the international
Camphill movement.

Based on the principles of anthroposophy, the latter was founded in
Scotland in 1939. There is now a network of more than 100 residential
communities around the world providing care for people with
disabilities, mental health issues and other special needs. They make
up the majority of the people who live in Svetlana. Then there are
permanent members of staff and volunteers, who come from all over the
world to help. But everyone there is simply referred to as a resident.
The village receives occasional governmental funding but is mostly
sustained by private donations and subsistence farming. Residents work
on the farm, or in the bakery, selling cheese curds and the like to
neighbouring villages.

Minya, who is resting his head on the table, has lived there for over
20 years. His partner, Tatyana, in the red cardigan, came later. They
both have Down’s syndrome. They met in Svetlana and fell in love.
Minya works in the bakery, although his health is deteriorating. He is
about 50, which for someone with Down’s syndrome is relatively old.
Tatyana works as a cook and a cleaner in one of the houses.

 I fell in love with the atmosphere of this place – the goodness,
openness, honesty and acceptance
Daily life in Svetlana is very structured, with a tight schedule and
lots of ritual. Everyone eats together, three times a day, and says a
prayer before the meal. There’s a morning meeting to talk about the
business of the day, and movie night on Fridays. Once a week there’s
also a Bible study. A resident will always be able to tell you what’s
happening next. It’s important for them, it gives a sense of security.

From the moment I first arrived, in 2016, I fell in love with the
atmosphere of this place – the goodness, the openness, the honesty,
the acceptance. The residents with special needs were so inspiring. At
the same time though, precisely what their needs were – what illness
or condition they live with – was unimportant. In Svetlana, everyone
is different, and valued as such. I always found it a little easier to
breathe there.

Over the course of two years, I went back every month, spending up to
a week living in the village. I spent time with the residents working,
drawing, listening to music, trying to understand their views on life
and their dreams. I always had my camera with me, but I spent the
first five months taking photographs I couldn’t use.
The first time I photographed Minya and Tatyana, it was difficult.
They were performing, clowning around. As soon as the camera wasn’t
there, though, they were different people, calm and serious. The
village has received a certain amount of media attention, but
reporters and photographers only ever come for a few hours at most,
and the residents are used to posing for them. It was a new experience
for them to have someone come back regularly, and it took a long time
before they realised they could just be themselves in front of the
camera.

So I waited, and waited. And eventually they stopped focusing on what
I was doing. I became “Masha (Mary) with camera”, nothing special.

I remember the day I took this photograph. It was during break time,
when most people go to the bakery for tea and cake and a chat. By this
point, no one paid any attention to me. They were just getting on with
their lives; the camera was an extension of my hand.

Minya and Tatyana were playing. She was putting her hands over his
eyes. He was laughing. She was smiling. They were completely wrapped
up in each other, oblivious to everyone else. It was so touching.

There are a lot of myths and stereotypes about people with Down’s
syndrome not knowing what it is to love others. Minya and Tatyana show
that isn’t true. They live together in the same room (they have a
print of this photograph on the wall). They wear rings, and call each
other husband and wife. They care about each other; they carry each
other’s worries.

One day they had a quarrel. Tatyana was very angry, screaming at
Minya, and he took her by the hand, and said: “Tatyana, stop it, calm
down. Nothing is going to happen. I love you.” Everybody who witnessed
that was amazed. It’s not everyone who can find the words so quickly
to help their partner calm down. For me that’s what this image is
about: love being stronger than stereotypes and limitations. And it
sums up my whole experience of Svetlana. I saw a lot of different
kinds of love there.

Mary Gelman’s CV
Mary Gelman.
Born: Penza, Russia, 1994.

Training: Docdocdoc School of Modern Photography, St Petersburg.

Influences: “People’s stories, Rembrandt, Paweł Pawlikovski, Roy
Andersson, Greta Gerwig, Xavier Dolan, VII Photo Agency and Magnum.”

High point: “The process of thinking about a project.”

Low point: “Whenever I feel like an impostor.”

Top tip: “Take care of yourself: everyone has limited resources and
works at their own pace.”

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सादर/ Regards

अविनाश शाही/ Avinash Shahi
सहायक/ Assistant
मानव संसाधन प्रबंध विभाग/ Human Resource Management Department
भारतीय रिजर्व बैंक/ Reserve Bank of India
लखनऊ क्षेत्रीय कार्यालय/Lucknow RO
विस्तार/ Extension: 2232




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