My name isn’t Sigmund Freud, but I think that for this student the opposite of success isn’t sloth – it’s running after flies that are meant to be fanned away.
The truism says, success requires sacrifices. Many times it’s not enough for you to sacrifice your sleep, hunger, comfort etc., though we rarely think beyond them. The devil attacks where you’re least expecting him from. I have had a string of rude experiences, some coming out from people who I thought to be my dearest friends, and they have burned my heart to the core. But if your priorities are defined, you have to move ahead, no matter the pain. Additionally, attaching your blindness with every ill treatment that you face isn’t wise, because every single person on this earth suffers from it. Whether people talk politely or rudely with me, I’m quick to conclude my blindness to be its cause, but my prejudice gets scrubbed off when I see them behaving with others also in the same way. I could be more resourceful than some other blind, but I think that they’re happier and more contented with their lives because they know what to welcome and what to put out the window. I get this feeling when I mingle with them. they may not talk philosophy or read voluminous books, but they have the right approach for things. I therefore feel that this student must seek opportunities to mix up with other blind people. She could go to trips and conferences and see how terribly funny and hard the blind are. Your fingers touch a boiling bowl. Option A: keep them there and option B: snatch them away. Your heart touches a boiling emotion. Option A: force your heart to burn and option B: move it away to put it in a meaningful pursuit. An Urdu poet said, There’re far greater problems in this life to think about than just being deceived in love! On Tue, May 7, 2024 at 1:06 PM Ronit Gadsing <ronitgads...@gmail.com> wrote: > I agree with below views of senior members. > > Just to add more and summarise > > Please worry about uncontrollable and trust your capabilities. The modern > medical research reveals that human brain is hardwired to produce best > outcome when it faces constant hardships. World is kind and cruel for > everyone, initially struggles may be more but you never know this is how > you will find a way and opportunity to grow and excel. > > With best regards, > Ronit > > On Tue, May 7, 2024, 12:19 PM 'Mohammed Asif Asif Iqbal (IN)' via > AccessIndia <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> wrote: > >> I recall my earlier year in my career when my boss told me channelize >> your energy in such things where you may expect positive outcome. Please >> tell your student that she should invest her time where positive impact on >> entire disability community can be made rather than sensitizing ice-cream >> vendor. It is unfair world and we have to chose our battle as we have >> limited resources. >> >> Jai Hind!!!! >> >> Asif >> >> >> >> >> >> *From:* accessindia@accessindia.org.in <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> *On >> Behalf Of *Sandeep Singh >> *Sent:* Tuesday, May 7, 2024 11:57 AM >> *To:* accessindia@accessindia.org.in >> *Subject:* Re: [AI] Why do people say these things to the blind? And >> what can be done for the same? >> >> >> >> I agree. Let's not take everything to our hearts. Try to senticize only >> those around or whenever we get an opportunity to address a large >> gathering. Otherwise, let our deeds and actions speak for themselves. If >> somebody is so unaware, it's their problem. >> >> Keep smiling, and try to take a few things in your stride! >> >> Warmly >> >> Sandeep >> >> >> >> On Tue, May 7, 2024 at 11:36 AM Shek Mohammad Ali <shahid.se...@gmail.com> >> wrote: >> >> Please teach them to be rational rather being emotional on these parts. >> >> I have gone with such uncountable experiences and maturity comforts you >> by ages. >> >> Also I feel that we should not waste our timing to sensitise everybody on >> the earth. >> >> Sometimes harsh responses will touch their heart. >> >> Once I was having my drink and someone who was seated in front seat ask >> does he also take? Then I straight away replied Am I not a human. >> >> Then he started conversing with me in a friendly manner. >> >> >> >> *From:* accessindia@accessindia.org.in <accessindia@accessindia.org.in> *On >> Behalf Of *Prakash Kamat >> *Sent:* Tuesday, May 7, 2024 11:22 AM >> *To:* accessindia@accessindia.org.in >> *Subject:* Re: [AI] Why do people say these things to the blind? And >> what can be done for the same? >> >> >> >> Sad reality out of an age-old-perception is, our society is built on >> traditional thought to see disability ONLY charity-based. Therefore Young, >> educated,highly qualified people with disability with disability and people >> who work in this sector should NOT get demoralised or upset by these >> incidents. They only show us how still there is lack of awareness about >> Rights-based disability,around us. So this is challenge for us. So take out >> 2-3 minutes and without getting angry,annoyed explain to these people that >> persons with disability like "me",like "my student" dont need charity, >> pity. They are first persons like you and me Sir. Only difference is they >> have a disability like vision deficiency. With education and >> qualifications they are equally,some times more competent and qualified. >> Technology and education have empowered them.As per the Constitution of >> India which governs all of us, Sir these PswD have equal rights to FULLY >> participate in the day-today development process in the society ON PAR WITH >> OTHERS...And as per law if they cant get this participation anywhere in >> public spaces due to barriers, it is OUR DUTY Sir to work/raise voice as an >> inclusive society to remove these barriers so that their participation is >> Full and on par with others. >> >> So Sir, this young man in front of you does not need free ice cream from >> you, he wants a hand of empathy from you. >> >> So Sir, this young student in front of you does not need free tuition >> from you for you to achieve Punya, he and all other persons with disability >> want your hand of empathy सहसंवेदना...Spread this message around and >> change people's mindset towards disability...that will fetch Punya for you >> 🙏 >> >> >> >> On Tue, 7 May, 2024, 9:56 am Austin Pinto, <austinpinto.xavi...@gmail.com> >> wrote: >> >> only 1 thing can be done. >> >> if some1 says something, you can ask them like for example >> >> why will you get punya by teaching me, you cant get punya by teaching >> some sighted person? >> >> and so on. >> >> On Tue, May 7, 2024 at 9:52 AM Cauvery Krishna < >> cauverykrishna...@gmail.com> wrote: >> >> These are some of the experiences had by one of my students of which I >> don't have an answer. Could you please help me. >> >> 1. Di, I am a visually impaired MBA student, pursuing MBA from an IIM. I >> was with a senior at the grocery store of our campus, i waited as the >> senior got ice cream for both of us. The shopkeeper said, "inko bolo kal >> aane k liye, kal meri taraf se mai inko kuch dunga. Ice cream ya juice kuch >> dunga meri taraf se." Which roughly translates to, "ask him to come >> tomorrow, I'll give him an ice cream or juice from my side." So the >> question is why would the shopkeeper have said the same? I am an MBA >> student, I was wearing clean clothes, I was holding a forty thousand rupees >> phone in one hand and a white stick in the other hand. I don't understand >> did he think I can't afford a Rs 50 ice cream? I am paying the equal amount >> of fees but upon my survey he never said anything like this to any of the >> sighted or non disabled students. Why was the ice cream ? For merely being >> blind? >> >> 2. 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