>
> Dear Ms. Subramani,
>
> Your note did something important: it separated inspiration from advocacy,
> and insisted on tact, nuance, and strategy. That insistence is rare in our
> ecosystem. It is also overdue.
>
> I’m *Lovely Sarkar Soti, Senior Programmes Manager at Rising Star Khilte
> Chehre (RSKC).* I work in the space where that flattening becomes
> dangerous, because it keeps the real problem intact. I want to give you a
> short walkthrough of our work because it sits exactly where newsrooms can
> see cause-and-effect.
>
> *The problem we are solving : *
>
> Visually impaired people in India are not excluded only by ramps missing.
> They are excluded by a daily operating system built on assumptions:
>
>    -
>
>    *You will not be here.*
>    So the airport counter, the hotel lobby, the monument gate, the bus
>    staff, the cab driver, the restaurant—none of them are designed with your
>    presence in mind.
>    -
>
>    *If you are here, you must be managed.*
>    So “help” becomes control. A hand grabs an elbow. A stranger speaks to
>    your companion. Consent is skipped. Dignity is treated as optional.
>    -
>
>    *Your rights are negotiable in public.*
>    You are expected to accept improvisation, gratitude, and
>    patience—because the system is not trained to treat access as routine
>    service.
>    -
>
>    *For visually impaired women, movement is treated as a risk to be
>    contained.*
>    “Safety” becomes a socially acceptable argument for restricting
>    mobility. Care turns into confinement. Over time, women disappear from
>    streets, work, and decision-making, not dramatically, but quietly.
>
> This is not just a travel issue. It is a public-life issue.
> Travel is simply where it becomes visible fast.
> Why travel is our lever
>
> Travel is a stress test for the country’s inclusion claims.
>
> If a visually impaired traveller can navigate an airport, check into a
> hotel, move through a city, use transport, access a monument, and
> participate in public spaces with dignity, it means systems are
> functioning. If they cannot, the failure is immediate and documentable.
>
> And when visually impaired women travel, the system is forced to confront
> a deeper assumption: who is “allowed” to take public space.
> The villain we keep meeting
>
> The last mile breaks on behaviour.
>
> Pity. Awkwardness. Fear. Impatience. The urge to “take over”.
> This is how rights get converted into charity. This is how policies die in
> real life.
>
> That’s why we built Act With Empathy—to change default behaviour early,
> inside schools and colleges, before people become the frontline staff,
> managers, and policymakers who run these systems later.
> The larger consequence people don’t talk about
>
> Exclusion from Daily Public Life shrinks the country.
>
> It shrinks participation in education, work, consumption, and civic life.
> It keeps a large group out of the economy in ways that never show up as
> one scandal, but show up as a permanent loss of potential.
>
> Tourism is demand-driven. When a segment is excluded, demand shrinks. Visually
> impaired Indians are also working professionals, earners, consumers, and
> family decision-makers. When they travel, they spend on transport,
> hospitality, food, and experiences. Inclusive tourism is market expansion
> and better service design that improves outcomes for everyone.
> What I would value from you: A journalist’s critique on how to make this
> a sustained public conversation that refuses to be reduced to “inspiring”
> exceptions.
>
> If you’re open, I’d love to learn how disability organisations can stop
> losing the story to sentiment.
>
> With Love,
> Lovely.
>

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