I don't think that disability, ability or anything external should be taken into account when it comes to the confluence of two souls - marriage
I don't think that disability, ability or anything external should be taken into account when it comes to the confluence of two souls - marriage. This union, in my humble opinion, is something which is purely spiritual - well beyond all the limits of materialistic aspects. Does really the question of disability matter? Atypically, my answer is no. It is immensely agitating to see that people have a very narrow outlook on the issue of marriage. Incontestably, this is because of the glamour-tinted glasses through which they examine each and every thing. I am blind, but I can marry a Cambridge graduate. I am blind, and I can marry another handicap, an uneducated, or a person of poor background - but that would not be a compromise with my circumstances; because it is deception. See the soul, not the flesh. Love is the basis of all the relationships. Let us fend off this disability thing. Shadab Husain On 8/23/08, firoz <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > regarding marriage i have my point of view > > i may be wront but this is what i have observed > > usually blind male is un employed or not earning properly > > then he is not getting any proposal from dis able girl's family > > and when blind person start getting money or nice job then > > family of blind male looking for normal girl and many a time he is getting > also > > in all this blind girl or any dis able girl remains un merried > > my point of view is that even if person is earning more or less he should > opt for dis able girl > > i may be wrong this is totally my point of view > > what others are telling i would like to know > > firoz > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "M. Chandra Shekar" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: "KODAKKAL SHIVAPRASAD" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; > <[email protected]> > Sent: Friday, August 22, 2008 8:09 PM > Subject: Re: [AI] MATRINONIAL PORTAL FOR DISABLED > > >> hello sir, I am very happy about your achievement. marriage between same >> type of disabled is not advisable. couple like your, is good. I had >> struggled to get marry. I am totally blind married with normal lady. now >> we >> have two girls. they are quite normal and healthy. we are leading happy >> life. >> with best regards. >> m.chandru >> ----- Original Message ----- >> From: "KODAKKAL SHIVAPRASAD" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >> To: <[email protected]> >> Sent: Tuesday, August 19, 2008 8:14 PM >> Subject: [AI] MATRINONIAL PORTAL FOR DISABLED >> >> >>> >>> Dear Bhat, >>> >>> You are right, it's necessary to prepare an marriage alliance >>> portal especially for physically challenged is very important >>> during these jet culture. However, please note that I have >>> created an web portal named DISABILITY FRIENDLY at : >>> http://www.kodakkal.ning.com which having 81 members now and most >>> of them are physically challenged, in this portal there have a >>> forum for registering matrimonial tie between physically >>> challenged to physically challenged or as they wish to select >>> their life partner. But unfortunately no one has been entered >>> their bio-data in this forum till now. >>> >>> About is physically challenged married to physically challenged, I >>> do not know about to write any comments on this, as inspite being >>> myself hearing impaired got married to a lady she having polio in >>> her two legs and walks only help of crutches & califurse and in >>> home she was an wheel chair user. We are happy couples since the >>> last 19 years and we having two childrens. By the grace of god >>> our childrens are in normal by physically. >>> >>> Hope to motivate in taking membership with my DISABILITY FRIENDLY >>> web portal at http://www.kodakkal.ning.com for any amicable >>> solution between physically challenged. >>> >>> with best wishes, >>> >>> with best wishes >>> >>> KODAKKAL SHIVAPRASAD,FUWAI >>> Award Winner & Record Holder-International Biographical Note, >>> URL:- http://kodakkal.ning.com/ >>> http://kodakkalshivaprasad.blogspot.com >>> http://www.linkedin.com/in/kodakkalshivaprasad >>> >>> >>> Join Access India convention: For updates on it visit: >>> http://accessindia.org.in/harish/convention.htm >>> Registration is now open! >>> >>> To unsubscribe send a message to [EMAIL PROTECTED] >>> with the subject unsubscribe. >>> >>> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >>> please visit the list home page at >>> >>> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> >> >> Join Access India convention: For updates on it visit: >> http://accessindia.org.in/harish/convention.htm >> Registration is now open! >> >> To unsubscribe send a message to [EMAIL PROTECTED] >> with the subject unsubscribe. >> >> To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, >> please visit the list home page at >> http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in >> > > > Join Access India convention: For updates on it visit: > http://accessindia.org.in/harish/convention.htm > Registration is now open! > > To unsubscribe send a message to [EMAIL PROTECTED] with > the subject unsubscribe. > > To change your subscription to digest mode or make any other changes, please > visit the list home page at > http://accessindia.org.in/mailman/listinfo/accessindia_accessindia.org.in > -- If you inquire about me, my beloved, then hear me: I am very strong to face calamities and reverses; I cannot tolerate that signs of sorrows and griefs on my face make my enemies happy, and increase sorrows of my friends . 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