A very nice discussion,

If you are in to some formal communications like meeting or group discussion then you can say "may I share something or can I focus on this issue?" before you start speaking.

If you are in to informal communication like with friends then make some sensational start to your talk so everyone listens to you very carefully. You can use the words like "you know what happened that day! Or a very funny incidence happened yesterday!" then everyone will be interested to listen you.

If sum one tries to address you without taking your name or without informing you, if you are knowing that person then even you miss reply then also he will not mind or you need not have to feel ocword. But some unknown person if you feel calling you then just ignore it. If he has some serious business with you then he will approach to you personally

I know this triks can be used in particular conditions and can not solve all the issues.

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----- Original Message ----- From: "Rahul Bajaj" <[email protected]>
To: <[email protected]>
Sent: Saturday, September 15, 2012 12:00 AM
Subject: Re: [AI] perceiving or anticipating visual signs


I completely agree with what Rajesh Sir said.
It often happens that we're unable to communicate with people who are
at  some distance   from us.
One major reason for this is that we cannot even know if the other
person is even listening to us or not.

I also try to laugh it off if I can. Although I won't pretend that it
doesn't sometimes  land you in really awkward situations.
Another different, but related, problem is that we always have to
depend upon    the other person to start the conversation.
This can be interpreted as rude behaviour by the uninitiated.

Cheers,
Rahul







On 14/09/2012, Preeti Monga <[email protected]> wrote:
You could develop a code sound that is not easy to copy for others for your
wife/husband/ kids and so on. Like a  wisel or a stylish cough or a word
which will be recognized by the person you are calling, something that
others will not note as odd and the sound will carry far. Or else these
days
you can just call on the mobile phone.

See if that helps. I just yell!
Preeti

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-----Original Message-----
From: [email protected]
[mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Asudani,
Rajesh
Sent: Friday, September 14, 2012 3:09 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [AI] perceiving or anticipating visual signs

Good discussion going on.
I would just say that sometimes it happens that a totally blind person is
unable to directly talk to somebody just beyond audible distance, even if
that somebody happens to be your wife at a small distance because you
cannot
direct your behaviour specifically at a person or just gaze at her, walk
down and find her and so on.
I mean to say we tend to loose direct line of communication at will which
sighted persons take for granted.

I know I have not been able to makemyself clear to many of you.
But those who have followed my point and have perhaps undergone the
experiemce would appreciate my concern.

Any remedies, please?

-----Original Message-----
From: [email protected]
[mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Singhal, Vivek
Sent: Friday, September 14, 2012 12:38 PM
To: '[email protected]'
Subject: [AI] perceiving or anticipating visual signs

Dear Mohit,

Query raised by you is very pertinent to VI community. In fact all of us
face this kind of issues on day to day basis. My views in this regard are:

  1.  All my friends and colleagues do take good care of me. They often
take
my name before addressing me. Normally when I feel that one to one
conversation with me is over I tend to look down indicating that eye
contact
is over. In case somebody wants to address a point to me then the person
addresses me explicitly by calling my name. It may be noted that eye
contact
is very important for one to one conversion and the sighted person shall
definitely call you or hint you in case he / she feels that eye to eye
contact is not there.
2. During group interactions many a times it happens that more than one people are talking and group may or may not be hearing to all. so whether
other person is listening or not does not really matter.
  3.  On one of two occasions my friends have gesture me by pressing my
hand
that I should stop speaking.

My advise is don't think too much about such issues.


Regards,

Vivek Singhal,







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