there are two aspects theoretical and practical. in theory, it is supposed that we should marry a man/woman not blind/sighted. no one is perfect so yes there will be one or another issue which can dissatisfy you. so everyone is equal from marriage point of view. but in practical terms, no matter how successful you are, blindness is our unique identity as it can be cast or religion in the sighted's case. I think in arrange marriages we can't even think to marry a sighted of equal status. as far as love marriages are concern, the success ratio is declining rapidly in case of both sighted partners also. I think feelings doesn't last long in tough ground realities. if you can afford the resources to compensate your blindness, then it can work. one tough reality is even a successful blind man/woman don't want to marry a blind then how can we expect a sighted to do so? in our blind field, we know each other so we can adjust bit easily. blind men can't appreciate women's beauty, and sighted men can't satisfy with the household work easily. I know acceptions are everywhere. usually blind want to Mary a sighted because of accessibility problems or say like helper kind of thing. but it doesn't come true for long. so don't think of a sighted intentionally, if it happens automatically in some cases, then its ok. don't apply on you.
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From: "Preeti Monga" <[email protected]>
Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:29 PM
To: "'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and 
issuesconcerningthedisabled.'" <[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normelpeopleintrestedinmarryingblindpartners> One needs to step out of ones comfort zone... only then there is a chance of actually living life to its fullest! It is not the best idea to remain a frog of the same well for life, when there is such a big wide world out here! Every experience, good
or bad, only enriches your life quality!
It also gives you a chance to explore and to grow and evolve! I wonder why do we want rules for marriages

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-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of bhawani shankar verma
Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 3:14 PM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issuesconcerning the disabled. Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrestedinmarryingblindpartners

you are absolutely right, exception can not be a rule.


-----Original Message----- From: ishita kapoor
Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 2:40 PM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerningthe disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people
intrestedinmarryingblindpartners

First of all, I am against of playing such a big gamble with my life.
I really don’t believe that a non disable can willingly marry a disable
person.
If he or she doesn’t get proper match in non disable world then only
he or she will consider disable partner.
Or if a the non disable is poor or uneducated and disable earns
handsomely then the possibility of acceptance is there.
Though exceptions must be there.
After all marriage is question of entire life which has nothing to do
with charity.
i am failed to understand why we all are eager to marry non disable?
my father won't allow my sighted, smart and educated brother to marry
a blind girl willingly  even my brother will not think in his dream to
marry blind girl.
so please accept reality and enjoy life.

On 6/27/14, Shadab Husain <[email protected]> wrote:
Don't be anxious. Play the game. You've the chance to win.

On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma <[email protected]> wrote:
ofcourse it is a gamble.


-----Original Message-----
From: Ravindra Jadhav
Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 10:47 AM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerningthe disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested
inmarryingblindpartners

means marage is one type of gamble and about life patner?
Now really I am very ancious what will happen in my future.

On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma <[email protected]> wrote:
also take note that you can't throw this lottery ticket even if you lose
it!


-----Original Message-----
From: Neeraj Singh
Sent: Friday, June 27, 2014 9:15 AM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerningthe disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in
marryingblindpartners

vary good example sir. Regards. Neeraj singh music teacher jnv .
Mobile 09630305273

On 6/27/14, bhawani shankar verma <[email protected]> wrote:
nobody can guarantee of a successfull married life. take it like a
lottery
ticket. If you would get good partner you are luckey, otherwise you
will
become a philosopher! smile!

----- Original Message -----
From: "Radha" <[email protected]>
To: "AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerningthe disabled." <[email protected]>
Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:04 PM
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in
marryingblind

partners


Preeti mam,

Inspiring words of yours, provoking to fetch a  amazing life partner.
You've  defined the real value of life and  relationship, that we can
trust for our entire life.
I  strongly believe the statements, we get what we give to this
world....in any relationship. It is really awesome to get a friend as
our life partner and want to hold a  friendly partner.
I  must say, the person who miss you is a  great loser  in his life,
dear mam, isn't it?
Many thanks, indeed, please contribute for our life road path.

On 6/26/14, Preeti Monga <[email protected]> wrote:
Interestingly it is irrelevant alright! The only thing is that
sighted
people are not conditioned to marry us blind people. The idea sounds
crazy
to them! And interestingly blind people want only to marry them
sighted
people! This kind of marriage is a marriage of  convenience! But,
usually
these kind of marriages do not last... and if they do... they are
only
being
pulled along because parting ways is not liked  by society! As you
may
know,
I married twice and both my husbands are sighted! No I don't live
with
them
both! I had to leave the first one for the compatibility was
missing...
and
I did not know it till I began to live with him after we were
married.
But
the second time over, everything in our marriage is not as it should
be...
my husband is ten years younger, sighted, his first marriage and
belongs

to
a different class and cast! But, we have had seventeen years of a
great
partnership and friendship! Now don't tell me that this is one of its
kind
of case... for most of us are scared to be honest even to ourselves.
If
we
make a mistake,  we lack the courage to stop making the mistake and
get
away
from it! We just keep living the mistake for  making the correction
and
trying again is not welcome by society and family! What a waste of
life?
One
only lives once and let us face the facts. Let us look for good human
beings
and not try to match requirements just as we do when we go shopping!
For
being single is much better than to live in a marriage with the wrong
partner. He/she may not be good with you, but may just be the right
one
for
someone else... so let us give ourselves a chance once again and live
happily!
Preeti

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-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On
Behalf
Of Asudani, Rajesh
Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 10:03 AM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in
marrying
blind partners

Well, I agree with compatibility thing.
However, do you mean to say sight is absolutely irrelevant to the
question?
I think not.
We may discuss sight or lack of it and inter marriages and
compatibility
issues as they are affected by sight, if the moderator permits..


-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On
Behalf
Of Preeti Monga
Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 9:27 AM
To: 'AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerning
the disabled.'
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in
marrying
blind partners

I think the question is not sighted want to marry blind or not, it is
all
about compatibility and what who is looking for  in his/her partner!
The trick is that one should marry the person with whom you would
want
to
have a life long friendship! Values, thoughts and giving is most
important.
Preeti

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-----Original Message-----
From: AccessIndia [mailto:[email protected]] On
Behalf
Of Ravindra Jadhav
Sent: Thursday, June 26, 2014 6:34 AM
To: AccessIndia: a list for discussing accessibility and issues
concerning
the disabled.
Subject: Re: [AI] my quriyocity are normel people intrested in
marrying
blind partners

dear, write your dout clearly. do not type the words in short. Then
everybody should understood your problems. Mostly mobile user like
me.
Now coming to your dout.
Sighted also like to mary with visually impaired persons. For
example,
I maried with sighted lady and i am very happy. I had only one son
study in grade I. In St. Xaviers school.

On 6/25/14, suhas J <[email protected]> wrote:
hi my name is suhas namboodiri i am blind so i wanted to knw that in todays world were people want good looking partners for them because
in my case during no girls use to even talk with me and same wase
with
boys i am unable to makeout y people do this to us so i wanted to
knw
tha



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