Thank you to those who came to Agra. And those couldn't, we will
upload video recordings of all sessions soon. We hope
thought-provoking Discussions accommodation, food, hospitality and a
trip to Taj Mahal will always remain alive in your minds. You must
have forged friendships and networking. AntarDrishti and BlindStars
jointly thank all delegates, speakers, volunteers and management of
Hotel Goverdhan, Shelaja and Ashoka for their wholehearted
cooperation.


http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/agra/Of-love-that-needs-no-first-sight/articleshow/45088176.cms
Agra: It was not love at first sight. But that's only because the eyes
were not there.

 When 28-year-old Dinesh (name changed), who works as an assistant
manager with a nationalized bank in Dehradun, met a woman of his type
(as he likes to put it), they hit the right notes from the word go.
Dinesh, however, insists it is just the right beginning and they will
take their own time before deciding on the future.

 Marriage remained the main topic of daylong discussions on the second
day of the three-day national blind convention being held on the
campus of Dr BR Ambedkar University in the city.

 The 147 participants from all over the country are members of a
Facebook page, called Blind Stars, which was started in October 2012
to provide the tech-savvy among the visually-impaired a platform to
connect with one another. This is the group's first gathering, a leap
from the virtual to the real world.

 Speaking at the event, 27-year-old Avinash Shahi, a PhD scholar at
the prestigious Jawaharlal Nehru University in Delhi, expressed his
desire to marry somebody who can see. While a few questioned him at
the interactive session, Shahi explained, "I cannot walk on road
alone. I want my wife to take me for walks and tell me how the crowds
in markets look. I am good looking and doing well in life. I can
provide her a good life."

 Many, including Nikita Patil, a computer instructor at Kamla Mehta
Institute of Blinds in Mumbai, did not agree with Shahi. The
28-year-old woman who was one of the most confident at the event,
said, "I cannot make food or do many other things. If I marry a man
with eyesight, there are fair chances of marital discord arising out
of my handicap. I would rather like to marry someone like me."

 There was also some guidance for these youngsters at the event. The
convention was also attended by some visually-impaired married couples
who shared their experiences and busted several myths the youngsters
seemed to have about marriage.

 "I dated and ended up marrying a blind man. We met online and he
didn't tell me for a while that he could not see. Once he did he ask
if it made a difference to me. When I said no, he told me the truth.
He was amazing and still is. He is strong, smart, funny and a
wonderful man -- he just happens to be blind," Shakuntala Prasad, wife
of Sukh Sagar Prasad, a government teacher in New Delhi, said.

 For Prashant Rajan Verma, a visually-impaired IT expert, and his wife
Veena Mehta Verma, country's first blind MBA who works as an HR
manager in NTPC, New Delhi, their marriage is as perfect as of the
people with eyes. "We complement and understand each other. This is
what marriage is all about," Prashant said.

 Akhil Srivastava, organizer of the event and member of Antardrishti,
an organization meant to create awareness among masses about eye
donation, said he was overwhelmed to see the confidence of the
participants.
More coverage
Visually impaired get to 'view' Taj
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/agra/Visually-impaired-get-to-view-Taj/articleshow/45090782.cms

'Visually impaired gather at national convention
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/agra/Visually-impaired-gather-at-national-convention/articleshow/45074033.cms

-- 
Avinash Shahi
Doctoral student at Centre for Law and Governance JNU

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