Wah... paling ngak suka dengernya nih, KDRT... Kalo menurut gw sih, perceraian bukan solusi, karena akan membawa dampak "lebih" ke psikologis anak, yang notabene baru berumur 4 taon... yang walaupun melihat KDRT jg bisa berdampak psikologis...
Gw yakin banget se"parah"nya hati seorang cowok, dia tuh tetep manusia, yg pada dasarnya hatinya lembut... mungkin kekerasan dilakukan untuk menutupi keangkuhan dan menunjukkan luapan emosi sesaat aja... Cowok kalo ngak dipancing emosinya, pasti ngak akan main tangan... jadi kalo liat sang suami marah, mendingan diam saja, tanpa perlu mengeluarkan argumen2 yang membuat suami tambah emosi...walaupun sang istri tau si suami yang salah... jadi cari waktu aja tuk ngomonginnya, yang pasti dalam suasana dah cooling down... Kalo menruut saran gw sih, bicara dari hati ke hati antar pasangan itu... inget gimana "mesra"nya mereka berdua sampe muncul buah hati... trus bicara maunya seperti apa dan buat perjanjian... mudah2an si suami bisa "sadar" diri... Gw yakin banget, kalo sampe suami ini bisa "ditaklukan" sama temen u, hidup keluarga ini akan rukun banget... Gw selalu inget kalimat ini... DIBALIK KESUKSESAN SEORANG SUAMI / PRIA, PASTI ADA SEORANG ISTRI / WANITA YANG MENOPANGNYA" ... dan "JATUH BANGUNNYA SEORANG SUAMI / PRIA, DITENTUKAN SAMA SEORANG ISTRI / WANITA"... Jadi kalo mau sang suami berubah, biarlah sang istri yang menabur kasih... Inget jg, tidak ada penderitaan yang kita hadapi melebihi kekuatan kita karena Tuhan maha pengasih :) Cheeeerssss (lagi"lempeng"nihotaksetelahcutipanjang) -----Original Message----- From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of Titik Sent: Wednesday, June 02, 2010 10:45 AM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: ~ aga ~ mo tanya dunk - KDRT Ya kalau begitu, saranin saja cerai,. kalau sudah tidak bisa dipertahankan and itu jalan satu-satunya... Kasihan lah si istri itu, sudah mnderita fisik, ditambah menderita batin,.. ----- Original Message ----- From: "Bona, Mirza Rotua" <[email protected]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Wednesday, June 02, 2010 10:43 AM Subject: RE: ~ aga ~ mo tanya dunk - KDRT > Temen gw kerja tp bukan kantoran buka usaha sendiri. > > Regards, > Apa yang baik buat kita blom tentu baik tuk orang lain dan > Apa yang buruk buat kita blom tentu buruk tuk orang lain. > > -----Original Message----- > From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] > On Behalf Of Titik > Sent: 02 Juni 2010 10:38 > To: [email protected] > Subject: Re: ~ aga ~ mo tanya dunk - KDRT > > Temenmu itu kerja apa ibu rumah tangga aja? > Kira2 siap tidak kalau ntr cerai? > Dia bisa mnghidupi anaknya gak?Kalau hak asuh sang anak ada di temenmu > itu? > Kalau sudah tidak bisa dipertahankan, lebih baik pisahan alias cerai > saja,.. > Kasihan si anak jg, kalau melihat KDRT.. > Pengaruh di psikologisnya nnti..heeeeeee (Kta Kak Seto). > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Bona, Mirza Rotua" <[email protected]> > To: <[email protected]> > Sent: Wednesday, June 02, 2010 10:34 AM > Subject: RE: ~ aga ~ mo tanya dunk - KDRT > > >> Temen gw ini dah punya anak 1 dan masih kecil di bawah 4 tahun umur > nya. >> Menurut cerita temen gw ini udah mengalami KDRT dari awal nikah, dan >> puncak emosi nya si suami sampe nyebut cerai. Sebagai temen apa yang >> akan lu lakukan jika ada temen lu yang mengalami hal seperti ini. >> >> Regards, >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: [email protected] [mailto:[email protected]] >> On Behalf Of ryesya rasady >> Sent: 02 Juni 2010 10:29 >> To: [email protected] >> Subject: RE: ~ aga ~ mo tanya dunk - KDRT >> >> waduh, dah ampe sejauh itu ya um.. >> kasian si istri nya, di bicarain ama keluarga besar kedua belah > pihak.. >> supaya ada solusi yang terbaik, apalagi kalo udah punya anak.. >> >> >> salam, >> risa >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >>> Subject: RE: ~ aga ~ mo tanya dunk - KDRT >>> Date: Wed, 2 Jun 2010 10:23:54 +0700 >>> From: [email protected] >>> To: [email protected] >>> >>> Kalau kondisi nya si suami sudah mengucap talak 3 bagaimana??? Temen >> gw muslim.. >>> >>> Regards, >>> >>> >>> -----Original Message----- >>> From: [email protected] > [mailto:[email protected]] >> On Behalf Of Deasy Christine >>> Sent: 02 Juni 2010 10:18 >>> To: [email protected] >>> Subject: Re: ~ aga ~ mo tanya dunk - KDRT >>> >>> konsolidasi dulu, kalo masih berulang mendingan pisah.. >>> >>> --- On Wed, 6/2/10, Bona, Mirza Rotua <[email protected]> wrote: >>> >>> > From: Bona, Mirza Rotua <[email protected]> >>> > Subject: ~ aga ~ mo tanya dunk - KDRT >>> > To: [email protected] >>> > Date: Wednesday, June 2, 2010, 10:13 AM >>> > Apa yang harus kita lakukan jika kita >>> > mengetahui ada teman kita yang >>> > mengalami KDRT di rumah tangga nya dan di ambang >>> > perceraian?? >>> > >>> > Komen donk.. >>> > >>> > thanks >>> > >>> > -- >>> > you have this email because you join to "aga-madjid" >>> > GoogleGroups. >>> > to post emails, just send to : >>> > [email protected] >>> > to join this group, send blank email to : >>> > [email protected] >>> > to quit from this group, just send email to : >>> > [email protected] >>> > if you wanna know me, please visit my facebook at [email protected] >>> > or add me in Yahoo Messenger at [email protected] >>> > thanks for joinning this group. >>> > >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> -- >>> you have this email because you join to "aga-madjid" GoogleGroups. >>> to post emails, just send to : >>> [email protected] >>> to join this group, send blank email to : >>> [email protected] >>> to quit from this group, just send email to : >>> [email protected] >>> if you wanna know me, please visit my facebook at [email protected] >>> or add me in Yahoo Messenger at [email protected] >>> thanks for joinning this group. >>> >>> -- >>> you have this email because you join to "aga-madjid" GoogleGroups. >>> to post emails, just send to : >>> [email protected] >>> to join this group, send blank email to : >>> [email protected] >>> to quit from this group, just send email to : >>> [email protected] >>> if you wanna know me, please visit my facebook at [email protected] >>> or add me in Yahoo Messenger at [email protected] >>> thanks for joinning this group. >> >> >> ________________________________ >> >> Chat online and in real-time with friends and family! 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