I seem to remember something about people living longer in cities,
like NY. The older people there, because they saw others in their
community daily, lived healthier lives. They didn't need to drive places. 

One of the things that is so great about ap is that it is a sort of
middle ground. we have space, beautiful wide streets, but a city vibe
as well. all sorts of people walking, some you know from seeing over
the years, they are people in your life, part of your world and there
are many more in close proximity than if i were living in most of
middletown.

i love the intimacy that is forced on us when we live close together.
easier to feel that your "family" is wider than once assumed. It can
also be a pain in the ass as family can be. 

thanks for the mention of a mix of incomes being healthier. That seems
obvious to me, but i don't think that is a common understanding. we've
got lots of issues surrounding income. We are way too infatuated with
the monied folk.


--- In [email protected], marioa...@... wrote:
>
> In a message dated 12/30/2008 8:42:27 A.M. Eastern Standard Time,  
> oakd...@... writes:
> 
> My  daigheter called it the stepford wives...
> 
> There's lots of "communities"  like that - you come in, buy a small
> condo either as a single or new  couple, move on to the next size, then
> the next, then the retirement home,  assisted living, full nursing
> care, hospice, then your final resting place.  Not for me either.
>  
> ===========================
>  
> Stepford Communities is great.  "Seeking the bubble reputation."
>  
> Long before that 1972 novel, Shakespeare nailed it with his Seven
Ages of  
> Man:  
> 
> 
> And one man in his  time plays many parts,
> His acts being seven ages. At first, the  infant,
> Mewling and puking in the nurse's arms.
> Then the whining  schoolboy, with his satchel
> And shining morning face, creeping like  snail
> Unwillingly to school. And then the lover,
> Sighing like furnace,  with a woeful ballad
> Made to his mistress' eyebrow. Then a soldier,
> Full  of strange oaths and bearded like the pard,
> Jealous in honour, sudden and  quick in quarrel,
> Seeking the bubble reputation
> Even in the canon's mouth.  And then the justice,
> In fair round belly with good capon lined,
> With eyes  severe and beard of formal cut,
> Full of wise saws and modern  instances;
> And so he plays his part. The sixth age shifts
> Into the lean  and slippered pantaloon
> With spectacles on nose and pouch on side;
> His  youthful hose, well saved, a world too wide
> For his shrunk shank, and his big  manly voice,
> Turning again toward childish treble, pipes
> And whistles in  his sound. Last scene of all,
> That ends this strange eventful history,
> Is  second childishness and mere oblivion,
> Sans teeth, sans eyes, sans taste,  sans everything.
>  
>  
> Cheers!    ;-)
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