Rajen:
>Let the family heal in their own way with time. Let us not disturb
their healing process.
*** You are right Rajen. It should not take any extraordinary
sensitivity to respect Ram and Alpana's privacy,their mourning and
their struggles with healing.
Netters do respect that. And no-one has found it necessary,
heretofore, to embroil the Sarngapanis' tragedy, to make political
points. I wished it had remained so.
c
At 9:16 PM -0600 12/21/06, Rajen & Ajanta Barua wrote:
Umesh:
I understand your position. But is 'Justice' the ultimate thing? Can
'justice' heal? Can justice bring back the dead?. I think, it is the
wstern world, who talks too much about justice. Eye for eye. Indian
world, Indian culture look at things differently. Sometimes it is
better not to say things at all. Unspoken words mean a lot. Let us
not say anything further on this subject in honour of Nitin. Let the
family heal in their own way with time. Let us not disturb their
healing process.
Rajenda
----- Original Message -----
From: <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>umesh sharma
To: <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>Ram Sarangapani ;
<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>Chan Mahanta
Cc: <mailto:[email protected]>[email protected]
Sent: Thursday, December 21, 2006 5:19 PM
Subject: Re: [Assam] IE: Nitin's case? Sharma - Yadav team in jail
finally -for life?
Ram-da,
I realize your feelings and the pain you feel. But to get justice
there has to be a concerted effort so I asked. One cannot sit and
wait for things to happen. Community members have to support.
I hope he (Grewal) is punished soon.
Umesh
Ram Sarangapani <<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Thank you C'da for really understanding our feelings.
We understand Umesh means well, but Umesh, both of us still feel
deeply hurt, whenever Nitin's name crops up, it brings back lots of
memories. In essence, it is a sensitive subject for us. And we
certainly, do not expect the same level of sensitivity from everyone
around. We hope you understand our feelings.
Over the past year or so, we have tried to show a brave front,
participated in Assamnet discussions etc, visited friends, but that
should in no way be construed to mean that, at least for us, Nitin's
case can be treated like some other case (far removed from us), and
Nitin is 'past history' for both of us and we can discuss him in a
detatched way. I don't think we will ever reach that sense of
detatchment and nor do we want to. Nitin is a part of us.
I did not follow this thread carefully, but fail to see the
connection. And since you wanted to know, Hardeep S. Grewal of
Houston has been indicted for Nitin's murder by a Harris County
Grand Jury, and is awaiting trial. That is basically as much as we
know about the case.
Also, whether, Grewal is convicted or not, sent to prison or not,
we, as parents, have already lost.
Ram & Alpana
On 12/21/06, Chan Mahanta
<<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Umesh:
You ought to have exercised some discretion in bringing Nitin's case
into this discussion.
But then again, why am I surprised!
At 7:06 PM +0000 12/21/06, umesh sharma wrote:
Natwar Singh did NOT kill anyone -- Sharma - Yadam team did -- two
people murdered.
I wonder how the case of Nitin Sarangpani's death in Houston, Texas
allegedly by an Indian Sikh immigrant whose daughter was his friend
and he was at her house to drop her off at night -after attending
his birthday party. Did his being a Marine Reserve help in police
investigation? Did the girl's father land in jail?
<http://www.assam.org/newsletter/september2005.pdf>http://www.assam.org/newsletter/september2005.pdf
Umesh
mc mahant <<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
None of these deserve being fed a lifetime in Jail.
Idiotic Brit Penal Code-also copied by US--where big fish like"
Kanwar" Natwar Singh are branded Success Stories and small fry
locked up for life -at what cost!
mm
From: umesh sharma <<mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To: <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: <mailto:[email protected]>[email protected]
Subject: [Assam] IE: Sharma - Yadav team in jail finally - for life?
Date: Wed, 20 Dec 2006 19:53:26 +0000 (GMT)
<http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78439>http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78439
This Sharma grandson of former Indian President -Shankar Dayal
Sharma (I know his nephew) seems to be trigger happy as do his
friends. Member of Parliament DP Yadav's son who goes to jail with
Sharma --is one of the two brothers allegedly involved in the murder
of Nitish Katara who was dating their sister and had the guts to
dance with her at her birthday party(as per news reprots).
Here is Yadav's main role
<http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78473>http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78473
Umesh
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