Re: Announcing new additional admin
Jade you do realize that going on for several paragraphs about it, post after post, with language that most people only have a tenuous grasp on the meaning of is also not helping right? I mean if they can't even properly understand you, your just talking to a brick wall and wasting your time.
At a certain point, you need to stop letting people draw you out into incredibly long winded arguments once you start noticing it happening. You'll see that almost every time you end up debating someone, your posts are at least twice as long as theirs, but very little of their original point changes when they respond to you, because they've tuned most of it out and just skimmed it.
And I get it, you want to make your position clear, show that your seeing all sides, but sometimes, you just gotta pick your battles and let what they say stand on it's marrot, even if it's wrong, unless it's actually directly violating a forum rule and then you'd be much better off having another mod deal with it.
Certain people will think what they will about that wrong info regardless. And you could spend that time with actions instead of words. Prove them wrong via your actions and eventually the naysayers will fade into the background more and more.
I do the same thing, and I'm working on it. Most of the time, short and sweet works best, and sometimes you just have to face the fact that someone understands you 100% and still thinks your completely wrong, even if the notion of them finding what your saying unreasonable is absurd to you.
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