Re: Girls at school harder 2 get than ones Outside of School?
The first problem is thinking of a girl as something to "get". How about meet? I was blind in highschool as well but I did this crazy thing called talking to girls as friends and seeing where it led. A poster earlier on talked about highschool girls being young and immature; you should see highschool boys!
Also, you can't just say that someone will react in a certain way because of where you meet them. There will be girls in your highschool who will get on excellently with you, you just haven't met them. Get a hobby and meet people who share your enthusiasm with it. You never know where that friendship might lead.
It's just really important to not immediately evaluate every girl you meet as a piece of meat you can "do". They're people and they're not stupid. If they meet a penis with a boy plodding along behind it, whether he can see or not, they're going to be turned right off from the start.
I'm sure many people will think this post is boring and unhelpful. The only defense I'm prepared to give is that I'll be proved right by most of you by the time you're 30.
Exactly. Probably some of the best advice on this thread. In the half a year or so since I started this thread, I've taken this advice from other people, and it works. (I'm in HS, so no, it doesn't just work when you're 30 haha). Since I've just loosened up, and not really thinking about the fact that you wanna, well, get with them, then usually things work. Also, as I said a few posts back, joining school clubs and getting a hobby really helps. Nto to brag, but after I joined a couple of sports at our schol, and our team made the provincial championships, the girls started to take notice a lot more, and when we were outa town at meets and tournaments, that's where I m et many of them. A lot of girls thought it was pretty interesting that a blind guy was traveling with the team, and like I said before, the whole blindness thing usually just fades into the background once you get to know the girl.
Also liked another point that someone else said, about not worrying about the, *quote, disability, unquote*, I found that us blind teens are actually quite fortunate when it comes to meeting women. Not to bag on, or feel sorry for other disability groups, but I've found that it could be much "worse", so to speak. For example, if you'e hearing impaired/handicapped instead of visually impaired/handicapped, there's issues such as sign language to deal with. Not that it's impossible to work around, but it seems a little more awkward, at least IMO. Then again, I'm sure most of my sighted friends wouldn't call being blind "easy" either lol.
Anyways, great poi
nts. And thanks to welshwer for posting this. It sounds like worn out advice, but trust me, it works
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