Re: I need help
How on earth could I possibly say that I understand, when I can clearly point out, that even if I have gone through similar experiences, they're not exactly the same? If that serves as an encouraging preface because it is at the very least honest, I'd be more than happy to try and help however I can. follow me on twitter, friend me on facebook, or add live:.cid.e66a231b8e11073c on skype. I may not solve your problems, but I can at least lend an ear, help think things through, reexamine questions from various angles and as has always been my history, with an unbiased perspective. I can inject myself into or take myself out of a situation to evaluate the picture as a whole rather than just assuming I'm right because it feels right and well, really, how can I be wrong!
Actually, the other thing we seem to have in common is that we do our best to help people and people don't generally help us. IN my case I can say it's probably my fault, as I don't usually give off the vibe that I seriously ever need help... I've gone on for far too long as a self-sufficient know enough about far too many subjects to continually roll on through life with little to stop me for long, without giving help for myself a second thought until things start crashing and burning around my ears, and then I'm the proverbial deer caught in headlights trying to still find some way out of the situation, while softly, sheepishly going, help help? Please please?
I lost an uncle a week ago to covid and there was no one to talk to about it. I lost a grandfather to old age and deteriorating health last year, but I was in the middle of taking care of a prematurely born daughter with a fair amount of health issues. I never asked for parenting advice though I should have, but didn't know who to ask because on the sighted side everyone I would have considered asking already judged me for lesser offenses other than wanting to live a normal life, such as my parents who never thought I should have been a dad and my mother-in-law who resents me, while on the blind side I don't know any completely blind couples who have already had a successful go at raising children. I know of blind guys married to sighted girls and vice versa, but in my mind that just feels like cheating. Nah, I don't actually have a logical argument for that last thought.
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