doctor_big wrote: 
> The header definitely is at odds with the article. 
> 
> If you prefer being alone, how can you be lonely? It's an inherently
> contradictory concept.

Don't forget we're talking about human behavior here, which can be
apparently self-contradictory in many ways, or haven't you noticed?

This is one of them. However it may take introspection or personal
insight to understand it. I can understand how a person that is an
isolated introvert may not understand how this can work.

For example, lets consider a person who "Prefers being alone" because of
feelings of anxiety about associating with strangers.  They do enjoy
being with people they know. 

In a context where only strangers are available, they may prefer to be
alone, but that does not mean that they don't enjoy being with people
they know when they are available.

Among many people with anxiety, their anxieties may influence them to
avoid doing things that they actually enjoy, once the anxieties are
overcome.


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