How to Detect Lies
Become a Lie Detector
Introduction to Detecting Lies:
The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used
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experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for
anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie
can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other
deceptions.
Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you
may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.
Signs of Deception:
Body Language of Lies:
* Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand
movements. Hand, arm and leg <http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies.php#>
movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.
* A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.
* Hands touching their face, throat & mouth
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nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an
open hand.
Emotional Gestures & Contradiction
* Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a
normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would
naturally, then stops suddenly.
* Timing is off between emotions gestures/expression s and words.
Example: Someone says "I love <http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies.php#>
it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement,
rather then at the same time the statement is made.
* Gestures/expression s don't match the verbal statement, such as
frowning when saying "I love you."
* Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking
emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face.
For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved:
jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.
Interactions and Reactions
* A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on
the offensive.
* A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his
head or body away.
* A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.)
between themselves and you.
Verbal Context and Content
* A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, "Did
you eat the last cookie?" The liar answers, "No, I did not eat the last
cookie."
*A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: " I
didn't do it" instead of "I did not do it"
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* Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They
imply answers instead of denying something directly.
* The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary
details to convince you.... They are not comfortable with silence or
pauses in the conversation.
* A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a
truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more
than the rest of the words in a statement.
* Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be
off. In other
Words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized
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Other signs of a lie:
* If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation
quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The
guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by
the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous
subject.
* Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.
Final Notes:
Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does
not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a
persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.
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