Dhirubhaism No 1: Roll up your sleeves and help.
You and your team share the same DNA.
Reliance, during Vimal's heady days had organized a fashion show at the 
Convention Hall, at Ashoka Hotel in New Delhi.
As usual, every seat in the hall was taken, and there were an equal number of 
impatient guests outside, waiting to be seated. I was of course completely 
besieged, trying to handle the ensuing confusion, chaos and protests, when to 
my amazement and relief, I saw Dhirubhai at the door trying to pacify the 
guests.
Dhirubhai at that time was already a name to reckon with and a VIP himself, but 
that did not stop him from rolling up his sleeves and diving in to rescue a 
situation that had gone out of control. Most bosses in his place would have 
driven up in their swank cars at the last moment and given the manager a piece 
of their minds. Not Dhirubhai.
When things went wrong, he was the first person to sense that the circumstances 
would have been beyond his team's control, rather than it being a slip on their 
part, as he trusted their capabilities implicitly. His first instinct was 
always to join his men in putting out the fire and not crucifying them for it. 
Sounds too good a boss to be true, doesn't he? But then, that was Dhirubhai.
Dhirubhaism No 2: Be a safety net for your team.
There used to be a time when our agency Mudra was the target of some extremely 
vicious propaganda by our peers, when on an almost daily basis my business 
ethics were put on trial. I, on my part, putting on a brave front, never raised 
this subject during any of my meetings with Dhirubhai.
But one day, during a particularly nasty spell, he gently asked me if I needed 
any help in combating it. That did it. That was all the help that I needed. 
Overwhelmed by his concern and compassion, I told him I could cope, but the 
knowledge that he knew and cared for what I was going through, and that he was 
there for me if I ever needed him, worked wonders for my confidence.
I went back a much taller man fully armed to face whatever came my way. By 
letting us know that he was always aware of the trials we underwent and that he 
was by our side through it all, he gave us the courage we never knew we had.
Dhirubhaism No 3: The silent benefactor.
This was another of his remarkable traits. When he helped someone, he never 
ever breathed a word about it to anyone else. There have been none among us who 
haven't known his kindness, yet he never went around broadcasting it.


He never used charity as a platform to gain publicity. Sometimes, he would even 
go to the extent of not letting the recipient know who the donor was. Such was 
the extent of his generosity. "Expect the unexpected" just might have been 
coined for him.
Dhirubhaism No 4: Dream big, but dream with your eyes open.
His phenomenal achievement showed India that limitations were only in the mind. 
And that nothing was truly unattainable for those who dreamed big.
Whenever I tried to point out to him that a task seemed too big to be 
accomplished, he would reply: " No is no answer!" Not only did he dream big, he 
taught all of us to do so too. His one-line brief to me when we began Mudra 
was: "Make Vimal's advertising the benchmark for fashion advertising in the 
country."
At that time, we were just a tiny, fledgling agency, tucked away in Ahmedabad, 
struggling to put a team in place. When we presented the seemingly 
insurmountable to him, his favourite response was always: "It's difficult but 
not impossible!" And he was right. We did go on to achieve the impossible.
Both in its size and scope Vimal's fashion shows were unprecedented in the 
country. Grand showroom openings, stunning experiments in print and poster work 
all combined to give the brand a truly benchmark image. But way back in 1980, 
no one would have believed it could have ever been possible. Except Dhirubhai.
But though he dreamed big, he was able to clearly distinguish between 
perception and reality and his favourite phrase "dream with your eyes open" 
underlined this.
He never let preset norms govern his vision, yet he worked night and day 
familiarizing himself with every little nitty-gritty that constituted his 
dreams constantly sifting the wheat from the chaff. This is how, as he put it, 
even though he dreamed, none of his dreams turned into nightmares. And this is 
what gave him the courage to move from one orbit to the next despite tremendous 
odds.
Dhirubhai was indeed a man of many parts, as is evident. I am sure there are 
many people who display some of the traits mentioned above, in their working 
styles as well, but Dhirubhai was one of those rare people who demonstrated all 
of them, all the time.
5. Dhirubhaism: Leave the professional alone!
Much as people would like to believe, most owners (even managers and clients), 
though eager to hire the best professionals in the field, do so and then use 
them as extensions of their own personality. Every time I come across this, 
which is much too often, I am reminded of how Dhirubhai's management techniques 
used to be (and still remain) so refreshingly different.
For instance, way back in the late 1970s when we decided to open an agency of 
our own, he asked me to name it. I carried a short list of three names, two 
Westernised and one Indian. It was a very different world back then. Everything 
Anglicised was considered "upmarket."
There were hardly any agencies with Indian names barring my own ex-agency 
Shilpi and a few others like Ulka and Sistas. He looked at the list and asked 
me what my choice was. I said "Mudra": it was the only name that suited my 
personality. And the spirit of the agency that I was to head.
I was very Indian and an Anglicised name on my visiting card would seem 
pretentious and contrived. No further questions were asked. No suggestions 
offered, just a plain and simple "Go ahead and do it." That was just the 
beginning.
He continued to give me total freedom -- no supervision, no policing -- in all 
my decisions thereafter. In fact, the only direction that he gave me, just 
once, was this: "Produce your best."
His utter trust in me was what pushed me to never, ever let him down. I guess 
the simplest strategies are often the hardest to adopt. That was the secret of 
the Dhirubhai legend. It was not out of a book. It was a skillful blend of head 
and heart.
6. Dhirubhaism: Change your orbit, constantly!
To understand this statement, let me explain Dhirubhai's "orbit theory."
He would often explain that we are all born into an orbit. It is up to us to 
progress to the next. We could choose to live and die in the orbit that we are 
born in. But that would be a criminal waste of potential. When we push 
ourselves into the next orbit, we benefit not only ourselves but everyone 
connected with us.
Take India's push for development. There was once a time our country's growth 
rate was just 4 per cent, sarcastically referred to as the "Hindu growth rate." 
Look at us today, galloping along at a healthy 7-8 per cent.
This is no miracle. It is the product of a handful of determined orbit changers 
like Dhirubhai, all of whose efforts have benefited a larger sphere in their 
respective fields.
In a small way, I too have experienced the thrill of changing orbits with 
Mudra. In the 1980s, we leapt from the orbit of a small Ahmedabad ad agency to 
become the country's third largest ad agency -- in just under a decade.
However, when you change orbits, you will create friction. The good news is 
that your enemies from your previous orbit will never be able to reach you in 
your new one. By the time resentment builds up in your new orbit, you should 
move to the next level. And so on.
Changing orbits is the key to our progress as a nation.
7. The arm-around-the-shoulder leader
I have never seen any other empire builder nor the CEO of any big organisation 
do this (why, I never adopted this myself!).
It was Dhirubhai's very own signature style. Whenever I went to meet him and if 
on that day, all the time that he could spare me was a short walk up to his 
car, he would instantly put his arm around me and proceed to discuss the issues 
at hand as we walked.
With that one simple gesture, he managed to achieve many things. I was put at 
ease instantaneously. I was made to feel like an equal who was loved and 
important enough to be considered close to him. And I would walk away from that 
meeting feeling so good about myself and the work I was doing!
This tendency that he had, to draw people towards him, manifested itself in 
countless ways. This was just one of them. He would never, ever exude an air of 
aloofness and exclusivity. He was always inviting people into sharing their 
thoughts and ideas, rather than shutting them out.
On hindsight I think, it must have required phenomenal generosity of spirit to 
be that inclusive. Yes, this was one of the things that was uniquely Dhirubhai 
-- that warm arm around my shoulder that did much more than words in letting me 
know that I belonged, that I had his trust, and that I had him on my side!
8. The Dhirubhai theory of Supply creating Demand
He was not an MBA. Nor an economist. But yet he took traditional market theory 
and stood it on its head. And succeeded.
Yes, at a time when everyone in India would build capacities only after a 
careful study of market expectations, he went full steam ahead and created 
giants of manufacturing plants with unbelievable capacites. (Initial cap of 
Reliance Patalganga was 10,000 tonnes of PFY way back in 1980, while the market 
in India for it was approx. 6000 tonnes).
No doubt his instinct was backed by years and years of reading, studying market 
trends, careful listening and his own honed capacity to forecast, but yet 
despite all this preparation, it required undeniable guts to pioneer such a 
revolutionary move.
The consequence was that the market blossomed to absorb supply, the consumer 
benefited with prices crashing down, the players increased and our economic 
landscape changed for the better. The Patalganga plant was in no time humming 
at maximum capacity and as a result of the plant's economies of scale, 
Dhirubhai's conversion cost of the yarn in 1994 came down to 18 cents per 
pound, as compared to Western Europe's 34 cents, North America's 29 cents and 
the Far East's 23 cents and Reliance was exporting the yarn back to the US!
A more recent example was that of Mukesh Ambani taking this vision forward with 
Reliance Infocomm (which is now handled by Anil Ambani). In India's mobile 
telephony timeline there will always be a very clear 'before Infocomm and after 
Infocomm' segmentation. The numbers say it all. In Jan 2003, the mobile 
subscriber base was 13 million, about 16 months later, shortly after the 
launch, it had reached 30 million.
In March 2006, it has touched 90 million ! Yes, this was yet another unusual 
skill of Dhirubhai's -- his uncanny knack of knowing exactly how the market is 
going to behave.
9. Money is not a product by itself, it is a by-product, so don't chase it
This was a belief by which Dhirubhai lived all his life. For instance when he 
briefed me about setting up Mudra, his instruction was clear: 'Produce the best 
textile advertising in the country,' he said.
He did not breathe a word about profits, nor about becoming the richest ad 
agency in the country. Great advertising was the goal that he set for me. A 
by-product is something that you don't set out to produce. It is the spin off 
when you create something larger.
When you turn logs into lumber, sawdust is your by-product and a pretty 
lucrative one it can be too! It is a very simple analogy but extremely 
effective in driving the point home. Work toward a goal beyond your bank 
balance.
Success in attaining that goal will eventually ring in the cash. For instance, 
if you work towards creating a name for yourself and earning a good reputation, 
then money is a logical outcome.
People will pay for your product or service if it is good. But if you get your 
priorities slightly mixed up, not only will the money you make remain just a 
quick buck it would in all likelihood blacklist you for good. Sounds too 
simplistic for belief? Well, look around you and you will know exactly how true 
it is.
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