Hi Friends of Buoyancee, Communication being the star amongst skills, the best marks, best jobs, best promotions, best sales and best life seem to be going to those who can Communicate with Confidence.
This Sunday at Times of India office off MG Rd, Ajit Kaikini who is a softskills trainer for top companies like adidas, Biocon, Cisco, CanBank, Dlink, Eureka Forbes.... ITC etc. and conducts training all over India in 6 languages, will expose you to the following: - How Fear grips us and blocks our progress - FEAR : Paralyser to Energiser - Effective Communication for Impact - Interviews, Group Discussions & Presentations TOI office is in the middle of MG Rd that road which connects Church St. The seminar room on the 1st fl. Timings: 10.00 am to 4.00 pm Cost: Rs. 300/= will be used to conduct free progms for the underprivileged under our project 'Build India' Pl forward this to your like minded friends. Sending some notes of our yesterday's discussions *Enclosing something to motivate you... * * * *“First we make our habits, then our habits make us.” ~Charles C. Noble* A mango tree will never grow coconuts nor will a rose plant grow sunflower! Nature works with certain laws and for some reason when it does deviate, we experience Tsunamis and Earthquakes. Everything in this universe has rules and they work for the general good of all. Habits in nature are instilled in the name of instincts and thus, a root will always go down and a shoot on the opposite side. They flow with nature/ life and thus are able to go against the hard ground and the gravity, producing specific fruits for the good of all. Flowing with nature is adventure and against is adversity. This adventure becomes an achievement and celebration for all with flowers & frutis as it is the behavior/ nature. Our instincts /nature are our gut feelings. However, we are forced to ignore due to societal pressures. Actually our gut feelings formed out of the same zygote which also forms the brain, is the road map of our life. Those who ignore go against nature and thus the stress and strain. Along with the gut feelings, we have the mind and the intelligence and of course the sense organs along with the common sense. However, very soon, we seem to bury our common sense. This may be the reason we chose wrong habits and though we complain and suffer, we live with them. Habits are acquired behavioral patterns done voluntarily (cycling/brushing) or they may be those which happen without our knowledge (smoking/drinking). However, habits ones formed become involuntary. Both can be broken and remade. Those who develop good (valuable/ serving) habits and break bad ones (valueless/ crippling) ones, are kept on the road towards success and happiness. The only habits you should hold true are the ones that make you a better person. Make it a habit to thank people for being in your life, buy a stranger a coffee, or get up early to exercise outside and take in nature’s beauty. Write down the habits you have formed over the years, and take a hard look at them all. Are they serving you, do they collate with your values? If not, eliminate them one by one, until all that is left are good value habits. Success is not a choice, it is a result. Nature does not fail at success, it listens to the instincts ingrained in its roots and it succeeds. The ground and water is the same but the fruit is specific. Trees grow, flowers blossom, and rivers run. The success habit can be the same for you. If you program no other habit into your life, make the success habit the one you tackle. Everyday, focus on success in everything you do; success for you and everyone around you. When you meet someone new, take a second to wish them the best in your mind, wish they have all the success they desire. Constantly wishing for other’s success will keep your mind focused on success, and a mind that focuses like a laser beam on any desire will achieve that desire. Nature works together. The trees give off oxygen, the flowers feed the bees, and the rivers provide water for everything. Nature is not selfish, it works together to provide a life for all to live. As individuals we can do so little, but together we can accomplish anything. Make it a habit to stop living for you alone, and live for others. The top is a lonely place if you do not have anyone to share the joy. There is nothing wrong with having goals and aspirations for your life, but making it a habit to work with others to achieve their goals will get you to your goals as well, most likely faster and definitely with more fulfillment. Nature is the best teacher and it tells us how to live. We can live extraordinary lives if we just follow a few steps. Listen to our instincts, work with others, not against them, and get rid of any habits that do not serve us. Success is not a choice, it is a result! Go out there and get some results. -- For motivating articles... [email protected] ------------------------------------------------------------------ Ajit Kaikini – Director, Growth & Corporate Training A motivational speaker who inspires his audience to Better their Best! 080 2654 9009, 080 2654 8972, 080 412 111 46, 0988 6060 363 www.buoyancee.com -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "BETTER PERSONALITY GROUP" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [email protected]. For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/better_personality?hl=en.
