Hay Friends,
Separate queues for women are anyway implemented at most of the places like 
banks and railway stations. Internet has revolutionized most of these services 
and hopefully very soon, we may not have to discuss separate queue issue 
because these internet driven services will penetrate even rural areas.

Let us drop the idea of reservations. As you can see in Maharashtra, the 
majority Marathas are now asking for reservations and OBC's and all other 
reserved casts are opposing it. This is the end of compartmentalization in 
society. I wish I am proved wrong, but we may have to see large scale 
inter-cast stress in India if our governments do not abandon Reservations which 
were expected to be selective initially and now have become an all encompassing 
destructive phenomenon. We can't make progress with reservations. Merit has to 
be the sole governing criteria no matter what.
Best Regards,
Deepak.




--- On Fri, 20/2/09, mayank shukla <[email protected]> wrote:
From: mayank shukla <[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [bm] women`s Quota and "women equal to men"
To: [email protected]
Date: Friday, 20 February, 2009, 1:04 AM











    
            Dear all,
What I am going to write cannot be written in more clear way but at the same 
time it may hurt your feeling for which I apologies previously.

Firstly I accept that we need to improve social culture.


The country USA has highest rate of Rape in world till 2002.After 2002 it 
dident declined.It is still there but USA has now different norm in collecting 
that data. ( Please see attachment )

In Pakistan rape cases are lowest.


All above I wrote is that if a "religion-culture" is present there. . .then 
condition of women will be like in Pakistan. . .where they almost cannot come 
out of their room called " Janana". . .


IF all most full freedom of liberty and open religion is provided. . condition 
is like USA. . .women not able to cope the rage of society.

Now lets praise India. . ."Best balance in Culture-Religion- and Liberty of 
Women". . .Not because of government of India. . .but by the parents of India.

Still if a girl end up in some social mis-shape its her choice.
(I am talking about capable families and girls)

Now separate queue for senior citizen and Physically handicap is agreeable.
Why do women want separate queue in India is still unclear to me.


My point is if same Indian women are dropped in USA they will find it safe in 
against that India is safer for women as compared to USA.I think Indian women 
should think the cases again. . .
Women themself has to realize what is safe.


Man see woman as a material of sex.I think doctors in group can justify this 
that :" its innate nature of ours."Its the first phase of attraction.
And dont tell me that guy in USA dosent stare u in that way!!


Wrong thing is " why do u feel guilt and get so bothered about few people 
staring at u.Wrong is in u. "
By wat medical or any issue mean u get to be thinking that.

This confidence of standing in 1 queue can bring the confidence in lot of other 
fields.Accepting reservation and demanding more of it is going to make you more 
weaker.


Public transport of Indore is having few " women buses " in city.Most of the 
Taxi-cabs are also same rated.They have 15% lower cost also.Being Indore 
citizen I dont see need of that. . .neither my mom neither my neighbor . . .nor 
my society ever demanded that. . .who did this and why ????. . were women are 
really demanding something. . .what they are getting! ?


If not . . . who is going to bring real voice on boards. .. are really women 
doing some thing to bring real voice.

Regards,
Mayank Shukla

On Wed, Feb 18, 2009 at 2:11 PM, Sanjay Sarda <sarda...@yahoo. com> wrote:


















    
            Dear all - Greetings of Peace from Land of Smile - Thailand,

 

Well, Govind what you have mentioned is correct, whenever a single women we all 
see, chances of that we will respect them and we should respect them for n 
number of reason, but we overlook it, but in every aspect and respect of life, 
their are always exception.


 

Anyways Mayank, your point of view needs little correction, you pose a question 
why women demant for seperate queue etc., from the above it should be very 
clear that they do not feel confidence in the man's society, they have a fear 
that they might have to face hard time.


 

As such all are my views and expression.

 

Warm regards

 

Sanjay Sarda



--- On Mon, 2/16/09, Govind... Hoping for better <hopegov...@gmail. com> wrote:



From: Govind... Hoping for better <hopegov...@gmail. com>

Subject: Re: [bm] women`s Quota and "women equal to men"

To: bharatudaymission@ yahoogroups. com

Date: Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:45 PM


 

      

    
    
        
        
        
        


        


        
        
        
        
        




 

      

    
    
        
         
        
        








        


        
        


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