IT can't be that hard to solve... I just commented out line 2398 of Window.cc and everything seems to work like it "should" (used to). I prefer it this way much more.. not having the window raise when clicked in, simply because i like to be able to put windows over the window i'm working in without having trouble. it seems like it would be quite simple to add an option and put an if before that line, but what the devil do i know.
--kolbe