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> Me?  You think I should feel ashamed?  At this moment in our history,
when
> thousands of our fellow citizens lie murdered and you choose to talk
about
> _our_ responsibility for what happened, you say _I_ should be
> ashamed?

You should be ashamed that you have a college education, clearly can read,
yet cannot see the words before your eyes.  Below, I repeat what I wrote,
which you continue to misquote, misunderstand and misuse.  This time, try
to
*see* what I said we have responsibility for, which is not the terrorist
attacks:

That's the sort of self-righteousness that will perpetuate hate and
violence, in my opinion.  We should not be afraid to look at ourselves, to
take some responsibility for the relationship we have with those who did
this terrible thing.  Not that we should not hold them accountable;
however,
taking the attitude that "we have done nothing wrong" is poison to any
relationship, personal or global.  We have done nothing to deserve or
justify this, without doubt, but let's not be afraid to take *some*
responsibility for the international relations in which this occurred.

If you refuse to see the difference between taking responsibility for the
relationship and taking responsibility for the action, then you will still
be behaving shamefully.

Perhaps someone else on the list can explain this better? John Donne said
it
pretty well -- "No man is an island... ask not for whom the bell tolls, it
tolls for thee."  No nation is an island, either.

Nick

Since I've been accused of misquoting, I won't snip anything.  We are not
responsible for the hostility in the relationship.  We are what we are.  If
someone else has a problem with it - that's their problem.  We have no
moral responsibility for their offense.  We have no responsibility for what
happened.  We have no responsibility for the international relations in
which this occurred.  We have made mistakes.  They do not make us
responsible.  The climate in which this occurred is meaningless.  The
people who did this had free will.  They chose to murder.  You have free
will.  You chose to spend your time the day after the bombings writing
about _our_ responsibility for the "international relations in which this
occurred."  I don't think most Americans would judge that _my_ behavior is
the shameful one.  The only responsibility involved is that of the
terrorists.  If they object to our media - as you claim - the solution is
not to censor our media.  It is for them to change.  Speaking about the
international climate or anything else like that is nothing more than
diffusing responsibility from those upon whom it should focus while bodies
are still being pulled from the wreckage.  The "relationship" had nothing
to do with what happened.  The terrorists were responsible for what
happened.

Gautam




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