> Dan wrote
> There is one other thing worth mentioning. In the past, the person who
> gently "enforced" the etiquette rules (Jo Anne) was not a list owner. I
> think that is a good idea. The warnings she gave were warning about being
> about to accidently say things one would regret later and starting to
> irritate friends without knowing it, not warnings of being one step closer
> to banishment for unspecified crimes. The only power she really had was
the
> power to help us see how we looked to others.
Gotta love informal leaders.... I think we need more women on the list :-)
Not that you male humanoids can't wield the "wand of ettiquette" or the
"smite button", but more "maidens, goddesses and crones (who could be
lurking) would
be nice.
Dee- trying to recall what the male triumverate/triange equivalent was....
_______, ______, and codger I think..........
