----- Original Message -----
From: "Alberto Monteiro" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
To: "Brin-L" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Sent: Saturday, February 02, 2002 9:39 AM
Subject: Re: Passive agressive behavior, why I find it more difficult to
deal with than direct attacks L3


>
> Dan M wrote:
> >
> >> Now, I think the listowners have some rights - the same as we all do.
Yes
> >> they have the power to bounce any one of us, but for chrissake, apart
from
> >> our late unlamented friend Kyle when have they done so? Right, never.
> >>
> >
> >Right.  But, up until this time, they had never told anyone that they
were
> >"one step closer to banishment."  I don't think they told Alberto
that...if
> >they did...I'd like to see the reference...but I had never seen it before
> >the last two weeks.
> >
> Ok, I deleted the messages, but they cluster from
> # 78039 to # 78059 at...
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/brin-l/messagesearch/78795?query=attachment
>
> I have no time to snip the relevant parts, but some of that
> happened in the chat room. And I even told Jeroen that he
> was a Nazi!
>
That's cool, Alberto, thanks for the update.  I read through the messages
and did not see anything that included banishment from the list.  I saw him
tell you not to post attachements, but no "if you do X will happen."  Well,
except for a "kick your butt on the list" with a smiley face. If that was
the message to John from Eileen, I cannot imagine a problem.

But now I read your next post, which says:

> I have re-read the messages, and there's no threat of expulsion in
> them. Since I remember this threat, either:
>
> (a) I self-implanted this memory
>
> (b) It happened in the chat room
>
> Steve and William, do you remember that I was threatened with expulsion?
>
> *Of course* the tone of the chat is much more light than the
> tone of the Israel-Palestine discussion, but the threat *was* made.


Well, I have two points about that.

1) I hope you can understand why we didn't spring to your defense, Alberto.
:-)  I would have done it, and I'm sure others would have if we had seen it.

2) The threat was way out of line.  Indeed, it shows the problems with off
line threats.  How can the community evaluate the validity of such a threat
if they don't see it.

Dan M.

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