> <SNIP> > > What are you trying to accomplish by bashing at each other > > onlist? Are you > > succeeding? Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. For the moment there is peace and a cease fire on list. Hugs for all. Once upon a time I met a wise man whose wife was dying of cancer. He was counselling me on a relationship where things were a bit ugly. His advice? Look at what you say and how important it is in the grand scheme of things. How bad do you hurt someone and how important is that to your relationship with them... when there is no time left. How did you waste time when it could have been so much more "well lived". For a moment there is quiet where there was animosity. I chose to tune out the animosity, but even then it could have been so much more of a discussion and relationship building in an area ripe for understanding.. but not for me this time. Glad a long monday is almost over, Dee
