I don't know of a way to instill a sense of
accountability in listmembers.  One of the prime memes
of this community is IAAMOAC.  That seems to pretty
squarely settle behavioral choices on the shoulders of
the individual members themselves.  

One thing we can all do, IMO, is drop a subject when
it gets too heated.  If it's continued offlist between
the main participants, that's fine, but onlist
discussions should remain level-headed and respectful.
 It's something I've been trying to remind myself to
do, with mixed success.  It was nice when Jo Anne
weided the Wand of Dinging, but even that set up a
relationship in which we didn't monitor ourselves,
instead relying on a reminder from someone else.

A theme in Brin's work that's always struck me is the
concept of maturity - he usually addresses it on a
societal level, but it's equally applicable on a
personal one.  We are all intelligent, articulate
people.  We are all (to my knowledge) adult, or close
to it.  We all have the capability to stop and examine
our actions, and make appropriate decisions on our
own.

Is calling another member a "f**king Nazi" (to grab
the most spectacular example - sorry, Tom.  Nothing
personal)a good choice?  No.  Is threatening a fellow
list member with potentially disastrous real life
consequences for calling names a good choice (Hi,
Jeroen - nothing personal here, either)?  No.  Should
we tolerate either?  No.  Should I ramble on much
longer?  Probably not.

I'm taking a roundabout way to say this:  "We are
members of a civilization.  We are members of a
community.  Act like mature members of both, or at the
very least make a real effort."

I remain proud of my membership in the Brin-L
community - I've dropped out of several other online
communities because they weren't as intellectually
high-powered, or were prone to vicious flamewars, but
I've stayed a member of Brin-L, and I intend to remain
a member, so long as the list can retain the character
and spirit I love about it.  That's not a threat, just
a statement.  I'm going to make a stronger effort
myself to live up to our ideals, both online and off.

Adam
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
Long-winded today, but at least not SHOUTING


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