At 05:52 AM 12/26/2002 -0600, you wrote:
Kevin wrote:
> At 12:07 AM 12/26/2002 -0500, you wrote:
> >On Wed, Dec 25, 2002 at 11:56:08PM -0500, Kevin Tarr wrote:
> > > But seriously, I have some questions. I got a forceful
suggestion that I
> > > e-mail someone, from her aunt. Practically a command. I've seen
this girl
> > > twice in the last four years, and maybe spoken ten words to her.
The aunt
> > > wasn't offering any help, she just said, 'I'll get you her
e-mail, you o
> > > the rest.

*snippage*

> No. nononono. nada, zip, no way jose. If I even thought there'd be a
> glimmer of that or if aunty would suggest she'd first make an
overture,
> then I would I'd have no trouble writing to her. Aunty was drunk,
she
> started talking about her family (laughing the whole time) and the
idea
> popped into her head. Nothing wrong with the girl, but aunty wants
to get
> her away from her sister who is holding onto the apron strings too
much
> (and the girl is letting it happen).

Good God, no.  Looks like a setup (possibly not intentional) to get
involved in family dynamic issues.  I'd sooner stick my hand in a bowl
of scorpions that do that.

Adam C. Lipscomb
Alright, see this is what happens when you try to add just little info. (I'm joking, even if no one else is.) She's not crazy. Any family has dynamics, at least I know this family on both sides. She is nice enough unless something dramatic has happened in the last two years. If she wasn't I wouldn't consider it. (Cue the Shallow Hal references).

I was just asking: What would be a good possible opening e-mail? Would a women consider this a fair opening move? I know not all women have the same likes and the way they want wooed, just a general yes or no if you received such an e-mail or call, and how you'd like it phrased.

Kevin T.
Thank you, off to work.

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