> A few will engage with you for the same unfortunate reason (to try to
"correct" you), but then it 
>just becomes a matter of who can be a bigger bully.  

I'm not sure about that.  Kevin, for example never struck me as a bully.
And, I've never seen a counter-argument with facts and logic as bullying.
I'll admit, I'm not particularly polite with John, but after someone has
insulted me on a number of occasions, I tend to be a bit less careful.  It's
not that I try to insult people, I just don't reread things for politeness
quite as carefully when dealing with a person who pontificates without
reason.  In other words, I'll take Feynman as condescending, but not John.

And, living in Grove, I also admit I get very very frustrated with folks who
are on Social Security and Medicare going on and on and on about the evil of
government.  When I point out they get much more than they paid in (if they
are in their 70s, that is overwhelmingly true for the age group), I'm told
that's absolutely false.  I have to be polite, because my wife's a minister
here, and I have to worry about my speech reflecting on her, but I've had to
go to the emergency room a number of times to get teeth marks sewn up on my
tongue. :-)

Dan M.


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