Susie,

I also don't have specific gender-free experience.  However, you might try 
using Ones and Twos.  This is gender neutral while also using familiar contra 
calls.

Harder to do is to try adjust the poor attitude of the narrow-minded 
"experienced" dancers who don't appreciate that "those people" and any other 
new dancers are needed to keep tha contra dance community alive and vibrant.

Good luck with the new dance.  May you have many more to come. 

Mark Hillegonds
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From: susie rudder <[email protected]>
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Date: Thu, 2 Dec 2010 13:02:54 -0500 (GMT-05:00)
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Reply-To: susie rudder <[email protected]>,
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Subject: [Callers] Gender free dances

   I have been asked to call for a new dance group forming in a small town
   near our regular dance. Experienced dancers were asked to come help
   these absolute newbies, and some local musicians have volunteered their
   services. It became obvious that about half the dancers were lesbians
   who asked me to use non gender specific terms when calling. I tried
   'lead' and 'follow' because the syllable numbers worked, but I'm not
   happy with that. I also had some regular dancers comment on not wanting
   to deal with 'some' peoples' political agendas as related to contra
   calling. I have never dealt with gender free calling and would
   appreciate ANY help from those of you who may have been doing it for
   years. What terms seem to work best? Any other hints to make things go
   more smoothly?  These people are very enthusiastic and I want to see
   the dance succeed.
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