David wrote: > The old hands (old feet?) are more comfortable being the center of > attention than would be the case if I asked all the newcomers to raise > their hands. >
I never ask anyone to raise their hands. The regulars know. The instruction that newcomers should find someone who has danced at least one night contains a very strong implied message to the regulars. The regulars are the ones who know who the newcomers are, and the message that they have a specific role is strong and unmistakeable. To make that message explicit is unnecessary and would carry the unfortunate implication (to at least some) that the regulars are not inclined to partner with first-timers and must be told explicitly to do so. This is subtle stuff. We need to examine the hidden assumptions in our own words. If the caller assumes the support and willingness of the regulars to help integrate the hall the message becomes more effective because they are enlisted as willing and enthusiastic hosts for the evening. I don't want to give any impression that the regulars are reticent to follow my lead. The implied lead is enough for a supportive dancer. Anything more specific implies that some regulars are not so supportive. People pick up on these implied messages. It is best to assume support. Just another thought. - Greg McKenzie
