On 10/25/2012 9:41 AM, Greg McKenzie wrote:
I use the optional newcomers orientation, explicit instructions, careful programming, clear and precise calling, as well as many implied messages to make it clear that integration of first-timers is not only essential but also fun. Very rarely I will see a couple of first-timers dancing exclusively with each other. But this occurs only after they have ignored multiple explicit and implied instructions and have fended off several attempts by regulars to partner with them. In that case I will intervene myself, personally, on the dance floor, approach the couple, and explain the nature of our dance event. That has always had the desired effect.
What do you say to folks who have ignored or brushed off every other attempt to effectively encourage them to partner with other dancers? I'm curious what you say that doesn't get said in the orientation, and if it works when you say it later, why not just say it during orientation?
Kalia
