I've noticed some tall dancers bend their knees and stoop a bit to make them 
closer to the height of the person they are swinging with. A very nice gesture.

> Date: Tue, 18 Feb 2014 09:23:35 -0500
> From: George Mercer <[email protected]>
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> Subject: [Callers] Height diffferential
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> A number of years ago I danced a number of times with a woman who was much
> shorter than me.  I am about 5'6" or so on a good day.  She was probably
> 4'8" give or take an inch. When we'd go into a swing, as my arm went around
> her to her back, she'd lock her left arm down so that I could hardly get my
> right hand past her side.  At first I thought it was bad form on her part,
> but let it be.  Then as I watched her dance with others, I realized that
> when her co-swinger managed to get his arm around her to the "normal" place
> it had the result of lifting her left side up to what appeared to me to be
> a discomfort level.  The taller the man, the further her left side was
> forced to go.  I had to learn a new approach to entering a swing, even to
> lean toward bad form when the height of the other dancer led me to an
> adjusted approach.  I'm not suggesting we should teach this, but thinking
> about how your technique (good or bad) can cause another discomfort is
> worth thinking about.  Over the year I've danced enough with men that I've
> also experienced discomfort with this height differential.  Just thinking
> out loud.  Thanks.
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