Hi Ladies,

Well at the end of last week I was getting really hopeful that I was getting
Katy through her upset about going to Lori's.  Not sure if you remember, but
we are going through a stage with her where she works herself up so much
when she goes there that she throws up.

Well we had a perfect week last week.  She didn't do it once (granted it was
only 2 days bkz Monday was a holiday.).  We bought her some treats for being
such a good girl and it was wonderful.  Well this morning it started all
over again!!  She woke up and the first thing she said was "Where am I going
today?"  When I told her Lori's she started to freak out.  I held her and
told her to calm down.  I ask her everyday why she doesn't want to go and
she says "Bkz she makes me eat".  Then I said "well I guess I need to find
you a new daycare".  Then she says No!!  Anyway we breath threw the
butterflies and get her mind off it.  

Well this morning when we got there she was working herself up.  She wanted
water and started saying Owie tummy etc.  Well she threw up her water.  It
was awful.  After that she was fine and said her tummy felt better.  She got
in Lori's car and that was it.  Its like once she throws up she feels much
better.   I am at my witts end.  I really don't think changing daycare is
going to be the answer, but I'm beginning to wonder. 

When Katy was small Lori always got the food into Katy.  My mom takes Katy
twice a week and her lunch box always came back full.  She wouldn't eat what
I sent, but Lori always had most things gone.  I knew this was going to back
fire cause now Katy has developed this negative thing about Lori.  I don't
know what to do.  I watched her work herself up this morning.  I could feel
her heart racing.  Then I knew what was coming next.  

I am sitting here writing this with tears in my eyes cause I hate to see
Katy go threw such torment and anguish, but at the same time I know its a
response that we need to change.  What is going to stop her from doing this
when its time to go to school.   I need her to learn to deal with situations
and not throw up whenever she doesn't like something.

Thanks for listening.  I am taking her to my psychologist tomorrow.  Not
sure if she can help, but I really hope we can work threw this.

Sam


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