<http://radarsite.blogspot.com/2009/02/death-of-family.html>Death 
of the Family

by <http://findalismonkeyinthemiddle.blogspot.com/>Findalis

To many young men these days it is a why bother 
getting married and raising a family. It is not 
necessary to have 2 parents in a home, all you 
need is one, just a mother will do. After all the 
<http://unitedfamiliesinternational.wordpress.com/2009/02/05/world-congress-of-families-reacts-to-unfpa-leader-who-says-family-breakdown-in-a-triumph-for-human-rights/>UN
 
agrees with you.

At a recent colloquium in Mexico City, Arie 
Hoekman, a <http://www.unfpa.org/public/>UNFPA 
representative from the Netherlands, told 
participants that high rates of divorce and 
out-of-wedlock births represent the triumph of 
“human rights” over “patriarchy.”
Jacobs stated, “Ironically, the UNFPA ignores 
international law and their own UN declaration on 
the basic human rights of children and the 
natural family as outlined in the 
<http://www.un.org/Overview/rights.html>Universal 
Declaration of Human Rights (UDHR). 
<http://www.un.org/Overview/rights.html#a16>Section 
16 of the United Nations UDHR adopted in 1948 
states that, ‘the family is the natural 
fundamental group unit of society and is entitled 
to protection by society and the state.” 
Furthermore, UDHR states, “men and women of full 
age, without any limitation, due to race, 
nationality or religion, have the right to marry and to found a family.’”
Jacobs charged: “Deconstructing the natural 
family has always been high on the agenda of 
groups like UNFPA. Ignoring international and 
domestic laws, they pursue this goal relentlessly 
through funding and promoting abortion, 
contraception and coercive population control – 
such as China’s one-children-per-family policy.
Jacobs continued: “There are reams of data 
showing that children from broken homes, either 
through divorce or failure to form families, have 
much higher levels of drug and alcohol abuse, 
crime and mental illness then their counterparts 
from intact families. But, perhaps Hoekman thinks 
these social pathologies also represent the 
triumph of human rights over patriarchy.”
We can look at some the 
<http://www3.interscience.wiley.com/journal/120052126/abstract?CRETRY=1&SRETRY=0>volumes
 
of 
<http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/365491/single_parent_households_and_childhood.html>studies
 
and statistics that support the conclusion that 
children raised in one parent households are 
likely to be very 
<http://www.joe.org/joe/1984september/a2.html>disadvantaged 
compared to those children raised by 2 parents. 
And yes there are many people who have 
successfully raised children while single, but it 
is a scientific fact that 2 loving parents are 
always the best for the 
<http://herkules.oulu.fi/isbn9514259416/html/x189.html>emotional 
wellbeing of any child.

Looking at just one state: North Carolina, I 
found this study on just this issue:
Children in Single-Parent Families in North Carolina:
A Growing Problem
by 
<http://www.sph.unc.edu/?option=com_profiles&Itemid=6388&profileAction=ProfDetail&pid=703182313>Paul
 
A. Buescher, Ph.D.
Most single parents do raise children who become 
successful adults. However, children growing up 
in single-parent households have twice the risk 
of repeating a grade in school, having behavioral 
problems, dropping out of high school, and being 
out of work; and girls raised in single-parent 
households have twice the risk of becoming 
teenage mothers. Over 85 percent of single-parent 
families are headed by mothers. About half of the 
children and mothers in families headed by women 
live in poverty. However, even when income is 
taken into account, children from single parent 
families fare worse than those from two-parent families.
Most single parents are in their 20s and 30s, not 
in their teens. In North Carolina, single-parent 
families represent more than one-fourth of all 
families with children. Families (single-parent 
and two-parent) with related children under age 
18 comprise about one-third of all North Carolina 
households. Contrary to popular perceptions that 
depict the typical household as a married couple 
and their children, such households represent 
less than one-fourth of all households in North Carolina.
Please read the whole report 
<http://www.schs.state.nc.us/SCHS/pdf/sb-13.pdf>here. 
It is a fascinating study into the problem.

Unlike the UN and Mr. Arie Hoekman, the majority 
of sociologists, child psychologists, educators, 
and religious leaders, all realize the importance 
of the 2-parent system backed by marriage.

It is only [...] those from the UN who actually 
believe that a child being raised by a single parent is a good thing.


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