Catholics Argue For Right To Refuse Goods, Services

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By DANIELA ALTIMARI | The Hartford Courant
March 7, 2009
Kate Bartos, Jeanine Marcin


Religious protesters Kate Bartos, center left, of 
New Hartford and Jeanine Marcin, right, of 
Marlboro, hand out Family Institute of 
Connecticut Action stickers at the door of the 
General Assembly's Judiciary Committee hearing on 
Senate Bill 899 in the Legislative Office 
Building. (GEORGE RUHE / AP / March 6, 2009)

No one is arguing that a Catholic priest should have to perform a gay marriage.

But the church says that doesn't go far enough.

The Connecticut Catholic Conference is asking 
lawmakers to expand the category of those who 
don't have to comply with the state's new 
same-sex marriage law if their religion holds that such unions are wrong.

People such as florists, wedding photographers and justices of the peace.



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"Same-sex couples have their liberties protected 
fully. Religious people are wondering, 'How is 
this going to affect me?'" said David Reynolds, 
lobbyist for the Catholic Church.

Reynolds raised his concerns Friday as the 
legislature's judiciary committee considered a 
bill to ensure that existing statutes comport 
with the landmark state Supreme Court ruling legalizing same-sex marriage.

"A situation has been created ... where state 
policy seriously conflicts with the religious 
beliefs of a large number of the citizens of the 
state," Reynolds said. He cited examples in other 
states where business people have faced legal 
action because they declined, on religious 
grounds, to provide goods or services to same-sex couples.

The judiciary committee hearing is likely the 
final chance opponents will have to put up 
obstacles to gay marriage. But several lawmakers 
oppose extending the religious exemption. Sen. 
John Kissel is Catholic and has long shared his 
church's opposition to gay marriage.

"I've been with you guys all along," said Kissel, 
a Republican from Enfield. But, "we're at a fork 
in the road and I have to let go of your hand."

A law preventing a Catholic caterer from serving 
guests at a same-sex marriage could also be used 
by a Protestant baker who doesn't want to sell a 
cake to a Catholic father for his son's first 
communion, Kissel said. "It could just as easily 
turn against each and every Catholic in the state of Connecticut."

In October, the state Supreme Court ruled that 
gay and lesbian couples had the right to marry 
and, the following month, Connecticut became the 
second state to legally recognize same-sex 
marriage. The legislature is now codifying the court's decision.

"I understand the feelings of the church, they 
don't like this decision," said Kissel, a ranking 
member of the committee. The battle against gay 
marriage was "a good fight, fought to the end. 
But that's the end of the road. The Supreme Court 
is the highest court in the land. They've made a 
determination; now we have to sort of live with that."

The state's civil union law, ruled 
unconstitutional by the court, is set to expire 
in October 2010. At that time, all civil unions 
will be automatically converted to marriages.

Peter Wolfgang, executive director of the Family 
Institute of Connecticut, dismissed the idea that 
lawmakers are merely conducting a bit of 
legislative housekeeping. "The negative effect of 
same-sex marriage on religious liberty and rights 
of conscience involve far more than the question 
of whether clergy will be forced to perform 
same-sex weddings," Wolfgang said in testimony submitted to the committee.

But for supporters of gay marriage, who have 
pressed their case at the legislature for more 
than a decade, the hearing had a celebratory flavor.

Rep. Beth Bye, D- West Hartford, stopped by to 
publicly thank the committee. She brought a 
framed copy of her marriage license; Bye and her 
wife, Tracey Wilson, were the first gay couple to marry in Connecticut.

Anne Stanback, executive director of Love Makes a 
Family, also thanked lawmakers; they are, she 
said, poised to close the "final chapter on the 
effort to end legal discrimination based on sexual orientation."

At one point, committee co-Chairman Rep. Michael 
Lawlor congratulated Stanback on her wedding ­ 
she and longtime partner Charlotte Kinlock 
recently eloped ­ and the audience burst into applause.

"Marriage equality is the law in Connecticut and 
this bill won't make it any more legal," Stanback 
said. But in addition to making sure that the 
statutes line up with the court's decision, the 
bill would eliminate language in the state's 1991 
gay rights act that many gays and lesbians consider archaic and demeaning.

That language states that the state does not 
condone homosexuality and does not require 
teaching it as an "acceptable lifestyle."

Said Stanback: "That language was insulting to 
many of us when it was added 18 years ago and 
today it is simply unacceptable. ... Words 
matter, and the only thing [those] words ... do 
is demean gay people and our families."

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