Demons in an East Texas home
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Posted by tmatt

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Prepare to do some hard reading.

You see, The Dallas Morning News has just 
finished taking a giant leap back into journalism 
history in a hellish three-part series built on 
the kind of serial, storytelling journalism that 
used to be common in American journalism. I think 
this is a good thing, when the material fits.

You make the call. Would you keep going after 
reading this, 
<http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/dn/latestnews/stories/030809dntexcaffey.3556cc6.html>the
 
top paragraphs in the first installment of the “Demons in the house” series?

EMORY, Texas ­ Terry Caffey can still taste the blood and gunpowder.

He can hear the staccato gunfire, the shrieks of 
terror and the plaintive wail of his 13-year-old 
son ­ “Why? Why?” He can feel the heat and 
suffocating smoke from the fire that rolled along 
the floors and up the walls of his cabin tucked 
in the piney woods of East Texas.

And he can see his wife ­ a humble woman whose 
fingers danced and spirit soared at her church’s 
piano ­ slumped at the foot of the bed, her neck 
slashed so savagely that a coroner’s report would 
say she was nearly decapitated.

It’s been a year. Enough time, Caffey says, for 
the stomach-knotting truth to be told about what 
happened that terrible morning about an hour east 
of Dallas, when two young men armed with guns and 
a sword killed his wife and two boys, then torched his home.

Enough time for the anger, pain and hysteria 
about his 17-year-old daughter’s role in the 
murders to fade. Enough time to confront what is 
for him an uncomfortable truth: You love your 
kids no matter what. Even after they try to kill you.

The religious themes in the story are constant, 
which is fitting since the lone survivor ­ the 
voice for the series ­ has taken his pain and 
turned it into a new ministry, while taking 
strong actions to show just much he is willing to 
forgive his daughter and the evil young men who, 
one way or another, stole her away from her 
family. It’s hard to keep these kinds of killers 
out of the electric chair in Texas, but Terry 
Caffey was willing to take the steps to save their lives.

It’s some story. It isn’t perfect, in large part 
because Erin Caffey, her lover and the other 
young people caught up in the plot cannot speak 
for themselves at this point in the legal dramas 
surrounding them. Thus, when we hear Erin’s voice 
it is filtered through the memories of family 
members who are anxious to believe her.

Another detail is sure to cause debate. Many 
readers are going to flinch at the father’s 
claims that his family was shocked by a culture 
of bisexuality ­ in a small, Bible Belt town in 
East Texas ­ that confused his daughter before 
she finally veered off into the premarital relationship that turned deadly.

This old-fashioned crime story is told in gritty, 
nasty detail, but the dominant perspective is 
that of a conservative ­ but stunningly forgiving 
­ father and there is no way around that 
journalistic reality. Many readers will want to 
join in asking this crucial question that Caffey 
asks himself in 
<http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/news/texassouthwest/stories/030909dnmetcaffey.3f55771.html>part
 
II of the series, during a confrontation with Erin:

Where did we go wrong?

“No, daddy, no,” Erin replied. “You and momma 
were good parents. You treated us real good. You can’t blame yourself.”

He continued to visit the jail, but Erin’s 
attorneys warned them not to discuss the case. 
They talked about the weather and what they ate 
for lunch. But the questions hung in the air, 
arcing between their eyes, until Caffey could no 
longer resist. He knew their conversations were 
recorded, but using a combination of sign 
language and his eyes, he asked her, “What did you know?”

He said Erin blurted out an answer before he 
could stop her ­ “Daddy, I tried to stop them but I couldn’t.”

Caffey says he believed her, and still does. 
Erin, he says, was manipulated by an older and 
controlling boyfriend, Charlie Wilkinson. 
Feelings of puppy love led to the worldly 
temptations of sex and alcohol, and feelings of guilt.

“I think giving herself to him like that messed 
her up,” said Caffey. “We brought her up to 
believe sex was for the marital bed, and I think 
she figured, ‘I already slept with this guy, now 
I’m going to have to marry him.’ ”

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Needless to say, the experts at the local Planned 
Parenthood office would dispute this 
interpretation of the facts. But, again, that is 
not the story that is being told here. Will the 
News follow this up at some point in the future, 
when the killers can tell their side of this twisted tale? Let’s hope so.

But by the time we reach 
<http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/dn/latestnews/stories/031009dnmetcaffey.3ecf976.html>the
 
finale, reporter Scott Farwell takes us to the 
theological turf that sensitive readers would 
know is coming. Ultimately, for Caffey, God had 
to be placed in the dock to face some ancient accusations.

Why does a loving God allow good people to stray, suffer and die?

This is, you see, the story of Job.

It is, however, the story of Job as told in the 
age of Christian niche marketing. This outcome 
will inspire some readers and infuriate others.

Terry Caffey says he’s been bestowed with 
blessings, too. A year after the murder of his 
wife and two sons, ages 13 and 8, he has 
remarried, retooled his work life and 
reinvigorated his Christian ministry. Caffey says 
he has forgiven his 17-year-old daughter and 
three of her friends, who were convicted of the murders earlier this year.

“I don’t believe God saved my life to go work in 
a factory making pencil erasers or something. I 
feel God saved my life because he’s got a purpose 
for it,” Caffey said. “I want people to know you 
can move forward and you can find forgiveness. I 
want my life to be a testament to that.”

The marketing of that message has already begun. 
Caffey is working on a book about the murders, 
selling his CD “Walking in the Light of the 
Living,” and has launched a Web site, 
www.terrycaffey.com. An agent for his publisher 
is negotiating summer appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show and Dr. Phil.

During the day, he repairs rental houses for a 
real estate investor. At night, he works as an 
evangelist, preaching at churches and speaking to youth groups.

Read it all and, parents, keep some tissues near. 
This father has not given up on his daughter, 
which is an amazing story no matter what you think of some of the details.

Photos: Matthew, Terry, Tyler, Penny and Erin 
Caffey (left to right); Erin’s police booking shot.

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