Flowers of Forgiveness

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For so long, I’d wanted to apologize to my best 
friend. But she died before I got the chance. What now?

By Haven Conner, Chattanooga, Tennessee
May, 1994

I never see a daisy without thinking of Barbara. 
We were sorority sisters in college. After her 
engagement, we searched for a silverware 
pattern­with daisies. As her bridesmaid I carried 
the same yellow and white flowers up the aisle, 
and daisies were everywhere at the reception.

Barbara and I talked every day. But then a 
terrible thing happened. I let an argument 
between our husbands drive a wedge between us. We 
stopped talking regularly, quit celebrating 
birthdays together. Suddenly we weren't friends 
anymore. I kept putting off calling her to make 
things right, but the regret never left me.

Then I learned that Barbara had died, at age 38.

I agonized over what had been left unsaid. One 
afternoon I slumped in a chair in my backyard, 
where we had held Barbara's wedding reception. 
Oh, God, I prayed, I'll never forgive myself for 
not telling Barbara how sorry I am and how much I loved her.

Tell her now, God seemed to say.

I poured my heart out, just like we used to do. 
"You were the best friend I ever had," I said. 
"I'm so sorry." Somehow I felt she had heard me. 
I got up, trimmed some wayward branches, even 
mowed the grass. That night I went to bed with a 
lighter heart. I only wished I had reached out to 
Barbara when she could still respond.

Next morning, in a corner of the yard, sprouting 
up from the freshly mowed lawn was an unexpected 
bouquet­a foot-high clump of yellow and white daisies.

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