Fear No More

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Would my husband ever be able to stop drinking?

By Mary L.
January, 2005

I sat at home, numb and devastated. I’d just told 
my husband to leave. I loved him, but I couldn’t 
take his drinking anymore. All the broken 
promises and bitter words. All the failed 
attempts at change. I’d done everything I thought 
was within my power to help him. I’d even 
attended Al-Anon, a 12-step support group for 
family and friends of alcoholics. But after 20 
years, his drinking had finally destroyed our marriage.

While he was packing his things, I had to get out 
of the house. A woman I’d met in Al-Anon, who’d 
reached out to me as a sponsor, lived only a 
short walk away. I set off down the street, my 
hands buried in my coat pockets, my gaze fixed on 
the pavement. To my relief she was home. She 
poured me a cup of tea and listened to the 
all-too-familiar details. Then she said, “I was 
thinking of you when I was reading my Bible this 
morning. One passage in particular spoke to me. I 
don’t know why but it seemed meant for you.”

“What was it?” I asked.

She opened her Bible and turned to chapter three, 
verse 14 of Zephaniah, a book in the Old 
Testament that I hardly knew. Together we read: 
“Shout for joy, O daughter of Zion! … The King of 
Israel, the Lord, is in your midst; you will fear disaster no more.”

Shout for joy? I wondered. When my heart is broken?

The following months were the hardest of my life. 
I went to Al-Anon meetings and spent time with my 
friend. I heard that my husband was going to AA. 
He got in touch with me and convinced me that he 
was dealing with his problem. He’d taken his last 
drink. The night he moved back home, I prayed for 
reassurance, some sign that this was a true new 
beginning, not one more false step.

The next day we went to church. We sat together, 
our hands barely touching. Then the reading was 
announced, an obscure passage I’d seen only 
months before. Now I listened in wonder to the 
words: “Shout for joy, O daughter of Zion! … You 
will fear no more.” That verse had been my 
promise. I didn’t have to fear. And in the years 
since, my husband has never taken another drink.

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