Hi Dan- I think you really hit it on the head - she was more in love with the idea than you. And if the reality didn't match the image, it was inevitable and better that you split. -Ben
-----Original Message----- From: Dan Phillips [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] Sent: Friday, October 26, 2001 10:43 AM To: CF-Community Subject: RE: Re[2]: beauuuuutiful friday And a wise observation it is. I could write volumes about the whole thing but you pretty much summed it up. Sure she loved me but I think she was more in love with an idea. That idea being 2.5 kids, a house, white picket fence and dinner with the in-laws on Sunday nights. While all of this is nice it is not my cup of tea. I would rather work my butt off for 15-20 years and then just spend the rest of my life relaxing not having to worry about money or a job. She didn't see it that way, and basically neither of us would budge on any issue. I finally threw my hands in the air and called a lawyer. Best thing I ever did. ~ Dan -----Original Message----- From: Mark Stewart [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] Sent: Friday, October 26, 2001 1:26 PM To: CF-Community Subject: RE: Re[2]: beauuuuutiful friday Dan, Happily divorced myself. I take it she didn't like the geek part? Isn't it strange how they love some things about you at first and then a few years later, they want to change those very things they originally liked? What's up with that? Just an observation. Mark -----Original Message----- From: Dan Phillips [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] Sent: Friday, October 26, 2001 1:11 PM To: CF-Community Subject: RE: Re[2]: beauuuuutiful friday It was. She knew a I was a hopeless geek when we met. :-) -----Original Message----- From: Eric Dawson [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] Sent: Friday, October 26, 2001 1:09 PM To: CF-Community Subject: RE: Re[2]: beauuuuutiful friday but the poster would not be there if you were married right? Eric Dawson From: "Dan Phillips" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: CF-Community <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: RE: Re[2]: beauuuuutiful friday Date: Fri, 26 Oct 2001 11:54:33 -0400 I'm happily divorced but not becuase of the poster. lol -----Original Message----- From: Critz [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] Sent: Friday, October 26, 2001 11:58 AM To: CF-Community Subject: Re[2]: beauuuuutiful friday oi Dan!! that you are not married? -- Critter, MMCP Certified ColdFusion Developer Crit[s2k] - <CF_ChannelOP Network="Efnet" Channel="ColdFusion"> ------------------------------------- Friday, October 26, 2001, 11:44:26 AM, you wrote: DP> I'm 27 years old and I have a Star Wars poster in my living room. What does DP> that tell you? lol DP> ~Dan DP> -----Original Message----- DP> From: Stephenie Hamilton [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] DP> Sent: Friday, October 26, 2001 11:30 AM DP> To: CF-Community DP> Subject: Re: beauuuuutiful friday DP> i guess i could only be consider (at best) an amateur fan, i don't know DP> anything compared to my kids (of course! guess that goes in everything now DP> that they are getting older) DP> i can barely pronounce some of the names, where they seem to know everything DP> by heart! DP> <"remember mom, in return of the jedi where blah blah blah blah"..."ahhhh, DP> sure?"..."no you don't, your just saying that!"...."ahhhh, sure?" etc> DP> ~~ DP> steph DP> ----- Original Message ----- DP> From: "Braver, Ben" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> DP> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> DP> Sent: Friday, October 26, 2001 11:14 AM DP> Subject: RE: beauuuuutiful friday >> Stephenie, >> sounds like we have a big chunk of the Jedi fan club on the list >> well, there's you, Ray, and me anyway >> my cell phone rings with the theme from Star Wars >> my wife said the farce is with me >> ha! >> -Ben >> >> -----Original Message----- >> From: Stephenie Hamilton [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] >> Sent: Friday, October 26, 2001 7:49 AM >> To: CF-Community >> Subject: beauuuuutiful friday >> >> >> ok peoples! let's hear some chatter! it is a beautiful friday here, a DP> little >> chilly, but very blue sky, no more storms or tornadoes in site (at least DP> for >> a while) and i am so glad it is friday! >> sure i would love to have a whole weekend off, but i doubt that will DP> happen, >> but at least i do have the star wars (version) monopoly tournament at my >> house this evening to look forward to. just love those forests of >> endor...sure you might want to go for coruscant (course u can't...afford DP> it >> when there are starports on it), but i love those little ewoks! >> ~~ >> steph >> >> >> >> DP> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Get the mailserver that powers this list at http://www.coolfusion.com Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/index.cfm?sidebar=lists
