i dramatize a bit, but for the most part its a complete and utter lack of desire. she says she loves me, says she wants to, but has absolute 1000% no desire. at all. i mean, NONE. now, there is a history of woman problems in her past, endomitriosis and some other laser surgery stuff, scar tissue that pains during whatever, and blah blah blah, so its not all her FAULT, and the problems of the past still haunt her, but as i try to tell her, there are a million ways to skin a cat, and im up for ANYTHING at this point :)
now, also, we have a good time otherwise, once or so a month things happen, and thats ok, i guess, now, ive come down to a place where that is ok, but what it has done is make me even more of a porn freak, CRAZY style...i mean, im a crazy sex driven person i guess the male in me gives that away, but really, im a nut, im giving, im VERY giving im VERY giving and did i mention, im VERY VERY giving, and she doesnt even want that any more :( sex drive = gone. i tell her i think its the ecstasy that she did when she was younger, she says no, but i bet it is! On 9/26/05, Adkins, Randy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I am not sure about Tony's case but in mine, well we share in all > The responsibilities of the house (Laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc... ) > as well we both work the same hours and fight the same traffic everyday. > > Mostly what I get is "I'm not feeling well..." or the famous: > "I'm too tired, maybe tomorrow, I promise.." > > -----Original Message----- > From: Deanna Schneider [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Monday, September 26, 2005 11:20 AM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: Welp > > Well, I feel for you, Tony. Have you tried talking to her about it? > Asking her why? For most of the women that I know that have partners > that complain about how much sex they get, the over-riding thought on > the part of the woman is, "if you'd get off your ass and help me with > all the shit that needs to get done around here, I might have time to > have sex." Just a thought. > > On 9/26/05, Tony <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > nada. > > > > the best thing we can look forward to as un-taken-care-of married > > people is the eventual and what appears to be inevitable > > extramarritalaffair or divorce and subsequent new piece of ass. > > > > sorry. its just soo true. i have no doubt why people cheat and > > divorces are rampant. > > > > i got married so that i could do whatever, i didnt get married so that > > > i would never have spontaneous sex again, so that i would never have a > > > random blowjob again, so that i would never get to see her naked > > whenever, sorry, i just didnt do that. > > > > make me eggs in the morning with no clothes on... be naked when i come > > > home, waiting for me to finish the job you just started... i mean, > > WTF??!!! > > i am the MOST GIVING > > and placating, and subservient human being in this world when it comes > > > to pleasing... > > yet that doesnt happen on the other side. > > > > and no, this isnt just me, this is EVERY friend i have that is > married. > > > > i love my wife more than life itself, she is my everything, she just > > isnt my sex partner like she used to be. and thats a PROBLEM! > > > > unhappy married guy. > > > > > > > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Discover CFTicket - The leading ColdFusion Help Desk and Trouble Ticket application http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=48 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:174979 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
