lol it also makes me an easy mark :). I've been hurt in the past or taken advantage of and i always start to think maybe i should change. Though after a few minutes i change my mind and realize i need to stay the nice guy that I am or then the person who hurt me wins and i change myself.
So hopefully i can always stay the nice gullible guy and be happy with myself when i finally go to meet my maker. On 12/8/05, Larry C. Lyons <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > +100 > > btw FWIW, I was diagnosed with dyslexia as a kid as well. So I can see > where you're coming from. > > Being a nice guy is NOT a a flaw or a shortcoming. Its a blessing to > you and those around you. A few more nice guys and less scumbags would > make this world a much better place. > > larry > > On 12/8/05, Bill Wheatley <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > I think anyone on this list knows I'm competent at what i do. There > > are times we all stop worrying about appearances and just be > > ourselves. I do that here. Others do that when they go out drinking. > > Or when they hang out with friends. To me these are my friends and I'm > > going to just relax and be myself flaws and all. > > > > I'm a good person, i have a big heart. I'm VERY good at what i do in > > the top percentile ranking on all the tests I've taken for it. I am > > unique. I am an asset. Some of the worlds most successful people were > > dyslexic. So when I'm doing things that are non-personal then i do > > have to spend a good deal of time rereading comments because i do find > > myself making mistakes. If someone does not like how i spell in the > > part of my life that i consider personal then so be it. I have no > > trouble finding work. > > > > I totally get what you're saying that i have to keep up my image. But > > do you not agree we all have to have time to just be ourselves? Maybe > > you will say this is not the place to relax since my next boss could > > be on this list. And maybe you are right but this list is my > > sanctuary. CFCOM has helped me through everything important in my life > > since i was 17. Getting married, divorced, wife leaving me, best > > friend killing himself, work trouble, scumbag bosses, my boss > > impersonating me on cfjobs to try replacing me, etc etc. I trust the > > people here with all that i am. And perhaps i should not be so > > trusting because it could turn around and bite me in the ass. > > > > But that is a character flaw i am too nice, i am too trusting, i am > > too forgiving. My life has been a list of things that would not have > > happened if i was not such a trusting and forgiving person. Hell i > > hold no harsh feelings to my ex-wife (btw divorce was final last week > > guys yay!). > > > > > > > > > > > > On 12/8/05, Jillian Koskie <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > My father would (in my opinion, correctly) argue that you are always > > > making an impression on people. And an impression that 'I couldn't care > > > less because you guys aren't important' isn't the one I'd like to step > > > forward with. > > > > > > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Purchase Homesite Plus with Dreamweaver from House of Fusion, a Macromedia Authorized Affiliate and support the CF community. http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=55 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:186713 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
