When I asked my GF out, I wrote my cell number on the back of a business card, told her that I'd really enjoyed the conversation and would like to continue it, and (referencing our discussion of her daughter and how much time they spend together) told her if she'd like to spend some time in the company of a grown-up, she should call me.
I asked, but let her do the deciding without me hovering. This was on the advice of several female friends, but I'm willing to bet it'd work on a guy, too. I know it'd work on me. --Ben Jillian Koskie wrote: > Inviting him out for a drink? > > or... > > Inviting him to review the report I just wrote for him from the confines of > my bedroom? > > In all seriousness... a note isn't lame? I guess it easily lets him ignore > it if he's not interested / can't because he has a gf. > > >>Write a quick message on a piece of paper. Walk by his desk and stick >>it in his hand. Then, walk away professionaly. >> >>If it were me, I would think that was totally cool and not childish. >> >>Then, if he contacts you, you are in like Flynn. If not, then move on. >> >>I'm a guy. I know. >> >>M!ke >> > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:191806 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=11502.10531.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
