I agree with your sister Sandy. Step out of your situation for a second and ask yourself, what advice would you give to someone else in your situation? I think that should help you decide what to do.
Also, by allowing him to get away with this, you are, at least in his mind, saying that it's ok to do this and he will keep doing it. If you need support, I'm sure that there are a myriad of organizations out there that have the resources to help you with these things. I just afraid that he will continue to escalate this and by doing something to stop him, you will most likely be able to break the momentum. Don't allow yourself to be in position one day where you find yourself saying "If I only would have done this or that, then I might have been able to prevent this stuff" Hind sight is 20/20 so use your past experiences to give you that vision. Michael Corrigan Programmer Endora Digital Solutions 1900 S. Highland Avenue, Suite 200 Lombard, IL 60148 630-627-5055 x-136 630/627-5255 Fax ----- Original Message ----- From: Sandy Clark To: CF-Community Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:25 AM Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish I've actually requested the forms from the US Attorney's office. Its a pain and I'm not sure its worth my time to pursue, but as my sister said when I told her (she is a US Marshall), "He's a big boy and has to reap the consequences of his actions." So I guess I will pursue. Hard to believe it has to come to this tho.... -----Original Message----- From: Larry Lyons [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 12:05 PM To: CF-Community Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish Its a power thing from the sounds of it. In other words, "You can't do this to me so I'm going to prove it to you by messing up stuff of yours!" damn I hate that sort of adolescent tripe. I'd seriously consider doing the wire fraud charges. larry -- Larry C. Lyons ColdFusion/Web Developer Certified Advanced ColdFusion 5 Developer EBStor.com 8870 Rixlew Lane, Suite 204 Manassas, Virginia 20109-3795 tel: (703) 393-7930 fax: (703) 393-2659 Web: http://www.ebstor.com http://www.pacel.com email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Chaos, panic, and disorder - my work here is done. -- > -----Original Message----- > From: Sandy Clark [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:59 AM > To: CF-Community > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > Apart from moral support I don't think so. > > He's called me and threatened me. > > This weekend he broke into my ebay account, locked me out of > it and changed > my username and password so I couldn't get in and Attempted > to buy something > with that account. > > Luckily I was able to prove all of this to Ebay's > satisfaction and not only > did they restore my account, they actually ended up deleting > his. (which > surprised me no end!) > > I'm contemplating filing criminal charges (wire fraud) against him > > Funny thing is I just want him to leave me alone. You'd > figure if someone > moved 3000 miles from you,you would get the picture??? > > Sandy > > -----Original Message----- > From: Larry Lyons [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:50 AM > To: CF-Community > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > On the first part, that's great. > > As for the second, that sucks. > > Anything we can do to help? > > larry > > -- > Larry C. Lyons > ColdFusion/Web Developer > Certified Advanced ColdFusion 5 Developer > EBStor.com > 8870 Rixlew Lane, Suite 204 > Manassas, Virginia 20109-3795 > tel: (703) 393-7930 > fax: (703) 393-2659 > Web: http://www.ebstor.com > http://www.pacel.com > email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > Chaos, panic, and disorder - my work here is done. > -- > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: Sandy Clark [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:54 AM > > To: CF-Community > > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > <cfset Answer = true> > > <cfset answer = "good"> > > > > 5 miles from home, at my contracting rate and no Overtime!!! > > > > Very Glad I am not in LA after this past week. > > > > I actually had to file for a restraining order on my ex and > > he is still in > > LA. What a mess. > > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: Michael Corrigan [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:37 AM > > To: CF-Community > > Subject: Re: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > By the use of upper case, I'm assuming that you got a new gig? > > True/False? > > > > <cfif answer eq "True"> > > good/bad? > > <cfif answer neq "Bad"> > > CONGRATULATIONS!!!! > > <cfelse> > > Well, look at it this way...you could still be in LA ;^) > > </cfif> > > <cfelse> > > My Bad! Here's a muffin...and a beer. > > </cfif> > > > > Michael Corrigan > > Programmer > > Endora Digital Solutions > > 1900 S. Highland Avenue, Suite 200 > > Lombard, IL 60148 > > 630-627-5055 x-136 > > 630/627-5255 Fax > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: Sandy Clark > > To: CF-Community > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 10:27 AM > > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > The only thing that was fusebox in that project was that they had > > fuseactions. Other than that, it was so screwed up, it > wasn't funny. > > > > > > I'm a big fusebox proponent, Unfortunately, they won't be using > > fusebox in > > my NEW JOB!!!!!! > > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: Beth Fleischer [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:03 AM > > To: CF-Community > > Subject: Re: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > fusebox fixes alot of these issues > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: "Sandy Clark" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > Date: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:05 am > > Subject: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > At the last place I was at, they weren't ready for me to do the > > > project I > > > was hired to do and threw me at doing QA testing on > > another project. > > > > > > I have never seen code where every query in a page was > named "Q". > > > > > > Comments on code read something like > > > <!-- Now increment a by one ---> > > > > > > However Custom Tags were never commented by were named something > > > scary like > > > <CF_RunFromScriptA> > > > > > > I feel your pain. C, I really really do. > > > > > > > > > ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ > > > Sandra Clark > > > Macromedia Certified Advanced Coldfusion 5.0 Developer > > > Shayna Productions > > > http://www.shayna.com > > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > > > > > > > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > From: C. Hatton Humphrey [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 10:57 AM > > > To: CF-Community > > > Subject: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > > > > Okay, I've got to vent somewhere, and since we're all CF people > > > here I can > > > do so and not completely confuse my audience. > > > > > > I am tasked with updating and maintaining a B2B EC site that has > > > been in > > > existence for over 3 years. I just recently (November) moved it > > > from FoxPro > > > to SQL Server for a datasource. Now I'm doing more > mods to it and > > > am having > > > to deal with 800 and 1,500 line pages that have the same query 4 > > > times with > > > one ID reference different. > > > > > > I think the great Geek Cartoonist Illiad said it best in > > this strip: > > > http: > > > > > > C. Hatton Humphrey, Developer > > > Fisher, Towne & Associates > > > 716-839-2141 x336 > > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ______________________________________________________________________ Your ad could be here. Monies from ads go to support these lists and provide more resources for the community. http://www.fusionauthority.com/ads.cfm Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/index.cfm?sidebar=lists
