Actually, i have some sympathy for Sandy's ex-- I am not justifying his actions - clearly he is behaving like a freak, but I suspect its that he isn't mentally all there right now. Remember his wife just left him (for another man no less), and I would assume she didn't leave him because he is a wonderful, happy person to be with - perhaps he was already depressed, perhaps its a drinking problem - either of those situations might cause someone to behave in an inappropriate manner.
BEFORE you flame me for this message- I do not condone his actions. At all. I am glad Sandy filed a restraining order, but I am hoping that he has 'shot his wad' so to speak and will leave her alone. I think that attempting to have him arrested for trying to make an ebay purchase may a) make him more unstable (and i don't think its because he is a jerk, i really think he is unstable and b) may cause him to be more abusive to Sandy. ----- Original Message ----- From: "Michael Corrigan" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Date: Thursday, February 14, 2002 12:30 pm Subject: Re: RE: Screams of Anguish > I agree with your sister Sandy. Step out of your situation for a > second > and ask yourself, what advice would you give to someone else in > your > situation? I think that should help you decide what to do. > > Also, by allowing him to get away with this, you are, at least in > his > mind, saying that it's ok to do this and he will keep doing it. > If you > need support, I'm sure that there are a myriad of organizations > out > there that have the resources to help you with these things. I > just > afraid that he will continue to escalate this and by doing > something to > stop him, you will most likely be able to break the momentum. > Don't > allow yourself to be in position one day where you find yourself > saying > "If I only would have done this or that, then I might have been > able to > prevent this stuff" Hind sight is 20/20 so use your past > experiences to > give you that vision. > > > Michael Corrigan > Programmer > Endora Digital Solutions > 1900 S. Highland Avenue, Suite 200 > Lombard, IL 60148 > 630-627-5055 x-136 > 630/627-5255 Fax > ----- Original Message ----- > From: Sandy Clark > To: CF-Community > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:25 AM > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > I've actually requested the forms from the US Attorney's office. > Its a > pain > and I'm not sure its worth my time to pursue, but as my sister > said > when I > told her (she is a US Marshall), "He's a big boy and has to reap the > consequences of his actions." > > So I guess I will pursue. Hard to believe it has to come to > this > tho.... > > -----Original Message----- > From: Larry Lyons [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 12:05 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > Its a power thing from the sounds of it. In other words, "You > can't do > this > to me so I'm going to prove it to you by messing up stuff of yours!" > > damn I hate that sort of adolescent tripe. > > I'd seriously consider doing the wire fraud charges. > > larry > > -- > Larry C. Lyons > ColdFusion/Web Developer > Certified Advanced ColdFusion 5 Developer > EBStor.com > 8870 Rixlew Lane, Suite 204 > Manassas, Virginia 20109-3795 > tel: (703) 393-7930 > fax: (703) 393-2659 > Web: http://www.ebstor.com > http://www.pacel.com > email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > Chaos, panic, and disorder - my work here is done. > -- > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: Sandy Clark [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:59 AM > > To: CF-Community > > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > Apart from moral support I don't think so. > > > > He's called me and threatened me. > > > > This weekend he broke into my ebay account, locked me out of > > it and changed > > my username and password so I couldn't get in and Attempted > > to buy something > > with that account. > > > > Luckily I was able to prove all of this to Ebay's > > satisfaction and not only > > did they restore my account, they actually ended up deleting > > his. (which > > surprised me no end!) > > > > I'm contemplating filing criminal charges (wire fraud) against him > > > > Funny thing is I just want him to leave me alone. You'd > > figure if someone > > moved 3000 miles from you,you would get the picture??? > > > > Sandy > > > > -----Original Message----- > > From: Larry Lyons [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:50 AM > > To: CF-Community > > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > On the first part, that's great. > > > > As for the second, that sucks. > > > > Anything we can do to help? > > > > larry > > > > -- > > Larry C. Lyons > > ColdFusion/Web Developer > > Certified Advanced ColdFusion 5 Developer > > EBStor.com > > 8870 Rixlew Lane, Suite 204 > > Manassas, Virginia 20109-3795 > > tel: (703) 393-7930 > > fax: (703) 393-2659 > > Web: http://www.ebstor.com > > http://www.pacel.com > > email: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > Chaos, panic, and disorder - my work here is done. > > -- > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > From: Sandy Clark [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:54 AM > > > To: CF-Community > > > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > > > > <cfset Answer = true> > > > <cfset answer = "good"> > > > > > > 5 miles from home, at my contracting rate and no Overtime!!! > > > > > > Very Glad I am not in LA after this past week. > > > > > > I actually had to file for a restraining order on my ex and > > > he is still in > > > LA. What a mess. > > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > From: Michael Corrigan [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:37 AM > > > To: CF-Community > > > Subject: Re: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > > > > By the use of upper case, I'm assuming that you got a new gig? > > > True/False? > > > > > > <cfif answer eq "True"> > > > good/bad? > > > <cfif answer neq "Bad"> > > > CONGRATULATIONS!!!! > > > <cfelse> > > > Well, look at it this way...you could still be in LA ;^) > > > </cfif> > > > <cfelse> > > > My Bad! Here's a muffin...and a beer. > > > </cfif> > > > > > > Michael Corrigan > > > Programmer > > > Endora Digital Solutions > > > 1900 S. Highland Avenue, Suite 200 > > > Lombard, IL 60148 > > > 630-627-5055 x-136 > > > 630/627-5255 Fax > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: Sandy Clark > > > To: CF-Community > > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 10:27 AM > > > Subject: RE: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > > > > The only thing that was fusebox in that project was that > they > had > > > fuseactions. Other than that, it was so screwed up, it > > wasn't funny. > > > > > > > > > I'm a big fusebox proponent, Unfortunately, they won't be > using > > fusebox in > > > my NEW JOB!!!!!! > > > > > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > From: Beth Fleischer [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:03 AM > > > To: CF-Community > > > Subject: Re: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > > > > fusebox fixes alot of these issues > > > > > > ----- Original Message ----- > > > From: "Sandy Clark" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > > Date: Thursday, February 14, 2002 11:05 am > > > Subject: RE: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > > At the last place I was at, they weren't ready for me to > do > the > > > > project I > > > > was hired to do and threw me at doing QA testing on > > > another project. > > > > > > > > I have never seen code where every query in a page was > > named "Q". > > > > > > > > Comments on code read something like > > > > <!-- Now increment a by one ---> > > > > > > > > However Custom Tags were never commented by were named > something > > > > scary like > > > > <CF_RunFromScriptA> > > > > > > > > I feel your pain. C, I really really do. > > > > > > > > > > > > ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ > > > > Sandra Clark > > > > Macromedia Certified Advanced Coldfusion 5.0 Developer > > > > Shayna Productions > > > > http://www.shayna.com > > > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > > From: C. Hatton Humphrey [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > > > > Sent: Thursday, February 14, 2002 10:57 AM > > > > To: CF-Community > > > > Subject: Screams of Anguish > > > > > > > > > > > > Okay, I've got to vent somewhere, and since we're all CF > people > > > > here I can > > > > do so and not completely confuse my audience. > > > > > > > > I am tasked with updating and maintaining a B2B EC site > that > has > > > > been in > > > > existence for over 3 years. I just recently (November) > moved > it > > > > from FoxPro > > > > to SQL Server for a datasource. Now I'm doing more > > mods to it and > > > > am having > > > > to deal with 800 and 1,500 line pages that have the same > query > 4 > > > > times with > > > > one ID reference different. > > > > > > > > I think the great Geek Cartoonist Illiad said it best in > > > this strip: > > > > http: > > > > > > > > C. Hatton Humphrey, Developer > > > > Fisher, Towne & Associates > > > > 716-839-2141 x336 > > > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ______________________________________________________________________ This list and all House of Fusion resources hosted by CFHosting.com. The place for dependable ColdFusion Hosting. Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/[email protected]/ Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/index.cfm?sidebar=lists
