He DID NOT say to talk to the child like that. What happens between lawyers and the people involved is just that.
This man has been one of my best friends n the world for years, and he would NEVER do anything that would make his son think less of his mother. The war occurs in the courts. Man, seriously off on this one Dana. > -----Original Message----- > From: Dana Tierney [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Monday, March 19, 2007 7:43 AM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do > > wow. I've been through this on the other side and I am really > not sure I agree. Oh... the child would be btter off with > both of them unless there's major issues sure. But this > all-out war stuff? I can't see telling a young child that > mommy or daddy is evil. But hey, I know nothing about any of > the situations discussed here. I'l just saying -- sometimes > you really can come to a civil agreement. Honest. > > >hmmm how can I say this without sounding like an ass? I > don't think I > >can, but those that /know/ me know better, so I am not too worried. > > > >I was just up feeding Phoenix and this thread kept popping into my > >head, probably because I can relate to it. Now, I know absolutely > >nothing about the situation, other than what was posted in > the initial topic. > > > >The "isn't technology grand" argument is bullshit. A picture > is worth a > >thousand words they say? What's a hug worth? > >IMO, your wife.. ex.. whatever you want to call her is selfish. god > >this pisses me the f*ck off, only because I went through it all. I > >spent /over/ $20,000 to make sure it didn't happen to me. My > ex cried > >this bullshit argument (she's from the uk) when were > separated. Wanted > >to take my son back to the UK with her.. but don't worry, > I'll get to > >see him for... wait for it... 3 months out of the year while he's on > >summer break. Well isn't that absolutely effin grand? Oh and > I would get to see him on the web cam daily.. > >and talk via phone and... and.. it's all bullshit. > > > >This thinking a child is better off with one parent than > having access > >to both is bullshit, and at least the courts are finally starting to > >see that, as well. Unless you are an unfit parent... well > then all bets > >are off.. If you can't take care of your kid.. or you abuse > them.. then > >they are better off w/o you... until you get /your/ shit sorted. > > > >The way I see it, since you already let your wife leave with your > >child, you really have no other choice but to follow, that is if you > >want to be a fixture in your child's life.. to have /some/ > say of how she is brought up. > > > >Call me an asshole, for saying it.. I don't care.. but I > went through > >/all/ of this. I fought hard so that my ex could not leave > the country > >to go to her "support system". What about the support system of the > >child.. isn't that made up of (starting with) the TWO of you? > > > >My ex would happily (and has on several occasions) admit > that leaving > >would not have been in Talon's best interest. and ps, we get > on great > >now. It took a while to get here.. but the situation is /so/ > much better for our son. > > > >Sell your shit, pack your shit up and get moving. At this > point in the > >"game" your ex is not your friend, she is looking out for > herself. Oh > >she may think she is putting your daughters needs first, but > that just > >ain't the truth. Her judgment is clouded. > > > >Go. Move. You have no choice now, unless you are going to fight to > >bring her back to where you are now. Your daughter needs both of you. > > > >i'm done. > > > >On 3/17/07, Robert Munn <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > >> > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Deploy Web Applications Quickly across the enterprise with ColdFusion MX7 & Flex 2 Free Trial http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion/flex2/?sdid=RVJU Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:230617 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
