You absotutely correct, and the BF and I really try celebrate every day together we can. Doing small special things, being upbeat, thankful for what we do have... little presents here and there. Always sit down to dinner, make each other cocktails, etc.
But man oh man, is it hard to get others on that band wagon. A LOT of people around us complain almost everyday about one thing or another. Running around like chickens. I have almost mastered the art of closing my ears to it all, because no matter how many times you try and spread the love and tell them "hey, it all aint that bad" they just don't want to hear it, or do hear it and ignore it. So to combat the depression spreading to my pores, you learn to ignore it, which in itself, is not conducive to good friendship, because you are supposed to be genuinely listening ... so how in the world do you cope with it all! Every once in a while I forget to close an ear, and bam! All that negativity seaps in and ruins my day until I physically shake it all off and start over. At least on the holidays, everyone is smiling and on vacation and happy and jovial, so we enjoyed it tremendously. Life is short right? Live it large ... no matter what you got! :D On 12/26/07, Dinner <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > You should spread love every day, but it's especially nice to get > together with family and friends, if possible, but for sure to take a > second and be grateful or whatever, once in a while. > > You don't have to be all religious to bust that stee-lo. =] > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Adobe® ColdFusion® 8 software 8 is the most important and dramatic release to date Get the Free Trial http://ad.doubleclick.net/clk;160198600;22374440;w Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:249118 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
