I do see a difference in a family blaming and shunning an adult, and blaming and shunning a child.
The first is wrong. The second is wrong and more cruel. In theory the adult is not as dependent on the parents and family as the child is. The child is completely at the mercy of the others. > On Fri, Jul 24, 2009 at 11:45 AM, Larry Lyons<[email protected]> > > > Blaming the victim is a common practice here - how many times have you > > heard - if she didn't dress that way it wouldn't have happened to her > etc. > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Want to reach the ColdFusion community with something they want? Let them know on the House of Fusion mailing lists Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:300907 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
