Thank you for all It is greatly Appreciated. Well heres the rundown. I was able to use www.roommates.com to find a place to move into sunday got all my stuff moved. But took the dog over and my dog is a big dog and i've taught her to be playful. The kid was running around near her trying to play and just then i realized no this wont work she could hurt him and i dont want that. So i got really really upset because i've had hear since she was a baby. Shes now 6, time flys. Well after i realizezd i would have to get rid of my dog i resolved myself to come up with the 2600 i needed to pay for the stuff my wife screwed me out of rent wise. This was where i really had to count on my friends alot, kinda funny i met a friend who drives an NSX so we're in a gas station parking lot and he's handing me 800 in cash and a cop drives by and you SEE the double take. He goes back and forth a few more times before pulling in to check it out. I assume he thought it was a drug deal but after i explined my situation and threw a handful of the confetti paper in my car from my wife he understood. Promptly told me if i didnt pick up every piece of paper he would write me a ticket and then left. I got to the landlord monday morning and got her 400 bucks she was able to call the sheriff and tell him not to come change locks today but to do it tomorrow. I went to my work ediets and they WERE going to cut me a check like 2500 or something and then i would just take half pay the next 2 checks. But they couldn't get me a check until tomorrow so i had to goto another guy and i promised him i'd work like 2 or 3 months from 3-8 free of charge to cover the $$ he was giving me and the use of his attorney. So i rolled into the landlords at 5pm with the 2600 she needed MINUS legal fees i'm still goign to owe another 500 or so in legal fees. So i have my apt to the end of the month WHICH i had already moved out of saturday and friday and sunday so i told her i would just leave my dog there walk her in the morning and night. The sad thing is she is very depressed she misses the other 2 dogs alot but i have left the tv on for her she enjoys that. So next weekend after payday i'm driving upto maryland with the dog and taking her to one of my best friends he'll watch her until i find a place that i can have her back at. Today i meet with the attorney at 10:30 i couldn't find her address in california so i can either pay more $$ to run newspaper ads HERE when i know shes in CA and wait longer or find her and have papers sent to her and then she has 60 days to answer. The divorce is going to cost me 2000 he said if its a simple divorce if not i am going to be out more $$. OH and i found out she put pinesol on my toothbrush..the hard way :(
I found out from her daughter megan that she is on her way to CA, shes in Louisana now, so hopefully by the time she arrives in CA i will have divorce papers greeting her. I am sure i'll get a call in a few months from her being sorry or whatever. The funny thing was i talked to megans grandparents who are kimbers exhusbands parents and they told me. Kimber said that she left because i had been talkign to megan and was going to have sex with her...And i was like WTF is she talking about, that just shows another depth of the paranoia she has been experiencing since she was off her meds because of taking guiafenisen for her fibromialgia. Brief history, megan is the daughter that lived in FL with us but then moved away because FL is no place to raise a kid and it showed by how she was turning into bad stuff. So we sent her up with her grandparents. After she left i found out she was telling everyone i raped her, she was 14 at the time she said that. Well after that i NEVER talked to her again because i was just furious about it. But at xmas when i went up i didnt see megan but she went to see my family and my dad told me she was very well behaved but that didnt change my mind. So probably just a week ago she mailed me and the rest of the family some photos of her with her new hair cut. I replied and told her how she looked nice. She sent me a long email saying how sorry she was for everything she did and that she was now in counseling and going to church and attempting to right the mistakes shes made when she was younger (shes 16 now). Well we started talking and i really decided that she was being sincere and i would give her another shot to live in FL if she wanted and her mother and sister said it was ok. Previously i was the only veto on her moving back. So somehow kimber twisted that into i was planning to have sex with her and this that and the other. So this is going to be great if she goes to court i am going to have to defend myself as being a f'ing pedofille (sp) which i really am going to hate doign its going to be humilating and dehumanizing. But you know that is the reason she gave people that she was leaving...but you know the best part. When i looked at my bank account the 2 paychecks from before last friday were also pocketed instead of used for bills. So i didnt talk to megan until 1.5 weeks ago which was AFTER those 2 check so i'm realizing she's just using that as an excuse to try to mitigate her abandoning me. I feel really bad for her because she really needs help i tried to get her into anger counseling for stuff and everything but she wouldn't go. Wow i'm shaking just talking about this i guess i'm upset lol. I'm sure it will all work itself out. Oh the better thing was she told this lady she sold the phone too i had child porn on my computer and so she says if you dont stop harassing kimber i'll call the cops and tell them you have that. So then i freak out and i do a complete dod wipe of my computer wondering if she planted something or was just being paranoid. Man its been stressful but last night i slept for the first time since thursday and i ate for the first time since friday at lunch. One good thing about this i'll defiantly loose all the weight i want ;). Yes everyone keep the good luck and prayers and hell i'll even take some muffins. I am just praying that since i'm only filing for divorce i dont want anything back or money that she'll just let it be. I want her to be happy and get help and i want this chapter of my life over with. She knew how utterly furious i was when megan said i raped her to not talk to her for 2 years and now she says something similar that i had or did or was planning and i am still utterly furious. Main reason i never left was because she is very vindictive and i didnt want that coming back on me. I guess thats what i get for saving her life when she was trying to kill herself, taught me a valuable lesson. Kimber told my landlord all about what I HAD DONE. And when i got belinda that check for all the rent she said Oh i really appreciate this and i knew everything that kimber said about you was wrong. And i asked her what she said and she didnt want to get into it and i asked her HRM was it something to do with me having sex with my step daughter!!! and she goes yes but i really didnt believe it i am a good judge of character. Man so now i have this crazy b**Tch running around telling people i'm a freaking pedophille. Oh well another day another muffin :) ----- Original Message ----- From: "Haggerty, Mike" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Monday, March 10, 2003 11:21 AM Subject: How Are You Holding Up (was RE: Pretty F*Ked up day) Bill; Your weekend must have been very trying. You have been in my thoughts and prayers, I hope that you are finding some peace in your day up despite what this animal did to you. How are you holding up? M -----Original Message----- From: Bill Wheatley [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, March 07, 2003 8:18 PM To: CF-Community Subject: Pretty F*Ked up day Well today wife said she had to take daughter to doctor so i give her the car today. I had plans with her tonight to go see a movie got the tickets on fandango UNREFUNDABLE NOW and i worry about her because she doesnt get here and i call all the hospitals and everything. I get home and the bitch left, then got a call from my landlord, she hasnt paid the rent in months i have an eiviction notice that she never let me see. The manager is giving me till monday to get my shit out. I am out 10,000 she took all the money out of my accounts shes on her way off to CA, she left graffiti all over my house walls my car is trashed.. if it wasnt for my friends and my work ediets.com i would be screwed. My boss can give me an advandance and my friends are helping me with a place to say. She even took my bed and my xbox & ps2 to pawn off i know she was batshit crazy but i was trying to make it work. Guess i need to file for divorce on abandonment this monday. Anyone know divorce law in florida? i am trully heartbroken ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/index.cfm?forumid=5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/index.cfm?method=subscribe&forumid=5 This list and all House of Fusion resources hosted by CFHosting.com. The place for dependable ColdFusion Hosting. Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
