yowza! i know how messed up things can be - been through some real messy stuff with abusive women myself and glad to be coming out the other side. Believe it or not, there is one! I'll send a few good vibes your way! :-) all the best, Patrick
>-----Original Message----- >From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] >Sent: March 11, 2003 8:20 AM >To: CF-Community >Subject: Pimping ain't easy! :) was (How Are You Holding Up (was RE: >Pretty F*Ked up day)) > > >Thank you for all >It is greatly Appreciated. > >Well heres the rundown. I was able to use www.roommates.com to >find a place >to move into sunday got all my stuff moved. But took the dog >over and my dog >is a big dog and i've taught her to be playful. The kid was >running around >near her trying to play and just then i realized no this wont >work she could >hurt him and i dont want that. So i got really really upset >because i've had >hear since she was a baby. Shes now 6, time flys. Well after i >realizezd i >would have to get rid of my dog i resolved myself to come up >with the 2600 i >needed to pay for the stuff my wife screwed me out of rent >wise. This was >where i really had to count on my friends alot, kinda funny i >met a friend >who drives an NSX so we're in a gas station parking lot and >he's handing me >800 in cash and a cop drives by and you SEE the double take. >He goes back >and forth a few more times before pulling in to check it out. >I assume he >thought it was a drug deal but after i explined my situation >and threw a >handful of the confetti paper in my car from my wife he >understood. Promptly >told me if i didnt pick up every piece of paper he would write >me a ticket >and then left. >I got to the landlord monday morning and got her 400 bucks she >was able to >call the sheriff and tell him not to come change locks today >but to do it >tomorrow. I went to my work ediets and they WERE going to cut >me a check >like 2500 or something and then i would just take half pay the next 2 >checks. But they couldn't get me a check until tomorrow so i >had to goto >another guy and i promised him i'd work like 2 or 3 months >from 3-8 free of >charge to cover the $$ he was giving me and the use of his >attorney. So i >rolled into the landlords at 5pm with the 2600 she needed >MINUS legal fees >i'm still goign to owe another 500 or so in legal fees. >So i have my apt to the end of the month WHICH i had already >moved out of >saturday and friday and sunday so i told her i would just >leave my dog there >walk her in the morning and night. The sad thing is she is >very depressed >she misses the other 2 dogs alot but i have left the tv on for her she >enjoys that. So next weekend after payday i'm driving upto >maryland with the >dog and taking her to one of my best friends he'll watch her >until i find a >place that i can have her back at. Today i meet with the >attorney at 10:30 >i couldn't find her address in california so i can either pay >more $$ to run >newspaper ads HERE when i know shes in CA and wait longer or >find her and >have papers sent to her and then she has 60 days to answer. >The divorce is >going to cost me 2000 he said if its a simple divorce if not i >am going to >be out more $$. OH and i found out she put pinesol on my >toothbrush..the >hard way :( > >I found out from her daughter megan that she is on her way to >CA, shes in >Louisana now, so hopefully by the time she arrives in CA i >will have divorce >papers greeting her. I am sure i'll get a call in a few months from her >being sorry or whatever. The funny thing was i talked to >megans grandparents >who are kimbers exhusbands parents and they told me. Kimber >said that she >left because i had been talkign to megan and was going to have sex with >her...And i was like WTF is she talking about, that just shows >another depth >of the paranoia she has been experiencing since she was off >her meds because >of taking guiafenisen for her fibromialgia. > >Brief history, megan is the daughter that lived in FL with us >but then moved >away because FL is no place to raise a kid and it showed by how she was >turning into bad stuff. So we sent her up with her >grandparents. After she >left i found out she was telling everyone i raped her, she was >14 at the >time she said that. Well after that i NEVER talked to her >again because i >was just furious about it. But at xmas when i went up i didnt >see megan but >she went to see my family and my dad told me she was very well >behaved but >that didnt change my mind. So probably just a week ago she >mailed me and the >rest of the family some photos of her with her new hair cut. I >replied and >told her how she looked nice. She sent me a long email saying >how sorry she >was for everything she did and that she was now in counseling >and going to >church and attempting to right the mistakes shes made when she >was younger >(shes 16 now). Well we started talking and i really decided >that she was >being sincere and i would give her another shot to live in FL >if she wanted >and her mother and sister said it was ok. Previously i was the >only veto on >her moving back. So somehow kimber twisted that into i was >planning to have >sex with her and this that and the other. So this is going to >be great if >she goes to court i am going to have to defend myself as being a f'ing >pedofille (sp) which i really am going to hate doign its going to be >humilating and dehumanizing. > >But you know that is the reason she gave people that she was >leaving...but >you know the best part. When i looked at my bank account the 2 >paychecks >from before last friday were also pocketed instead of used for >bills. So i >didnt talk to megan until 1.5 weeks ago which was AFTER those >2 check so i'm >realizing she's just using that as an excuse to try to mitigate her >abandoning me. I feel really bad for her because she really >needs help i >tried to get her into anger counseling for stuff and everything but she >wouldn't go. > >Wow i'm shaking just talking about this i guess i'm upset lol. >I'm sure it >will all work itself out. >Oh the better thing was she told this lady she sold the phone too i had >child porn on my computer and so she says if you dont stop >harassing kimber >i'll call the cops and tell them you have that. So then i >freak out and i do >a complete dod wipe of my computer wondering if she planted >something or was >just being paranoid. Man its been stressful but last night i >slept for the >first time since thursday and i ate for the first time since friday at >lunch. One good thing about this i'll defiantly loose all the >weight i want >;). > >Yes everyone keep the good luck and prayers and hell i'll even >take some >muffins. > >I am just praying that since i'm only filing for divorce i dont want >anything back or money that she'll just let it be. I want her >to be happy >and get help and i want this chapter of my life over with. She knew how >utterly furious i was when megan said i raped her to not talk >to her for 2 >years and now she says something similar that i had or did or >was planning >and i am still utterly furious. > >Main reason i never left was because she is very vindictive >and i didnt want >that coming back on me. I guess thats what i get for saving >her life when >she was trying to kill herself, taught me a valuable lesson. > >Kimber told my landlord all about what I HAD DONE. And when i >got belinda >that check for all the rent she said Oh i really appreciate >this and i knew >everything that kimber said about you was wrong. And i asked >her what she >said and she didnt want to get into it and i asked her HRM was >it something >to do with me having sex with my step daughter!!! and she goes >yes but i >really didnt believe it i am a good judge of character. Man so >now i have >this crazy b**Tch running around telling people i'm a freaking >pedophille. > >Oh well another day another muffin :) > > > > > > >----- Original Message ----- >From: "Haggerty, Mike" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> >Sent: Monday, March 10, 2003 11:21 AM >Subject: How Are You Holding Up (was RE: Pretty F*Ked up day) > > >Bill; > >Your weekend must have been very trying. You have been in my >thoughts and >prayers, I hope that you are finding some peace in your day up >despite what >this animal did to you. > >How are you holding up? > >M > > >-----Original Message----- >From: Bill Wheatley [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] >Sent: Friday, March 07, 2003 8:18 PM >To: CF-Community >Subject: Pretty F*Ked up day > > >Well today wife said she had to take daughter to doctor so i >give her the >car today. I had plans with her tonight to go see a movie got >the tickets on >fandango UNREFUNDABLE NOW > >and i worry about her because she doesnt get here and i call all the >hospitals and everything. I get home and the bitch left, then >got a call >from my landlord, she hasnt paid the rent in months i have an eiviction >notice that she never let me see. The manager is giving me >till monday to >get my shit out. I am out 10,000 she took all the money out of >my accounts >shes on her way off to CA, she left graffiti all over my house >walls my car >is trashed.. > >if it wasnt for my friends and my work ediets.com i would be >screwed. My >boss can give me an advandance and my friends are helping me >with a place to >say. > >She even took my bed and my xbox & ps2 to pawn off > >i know she was batshit crazy but i was trying to make it work. > >Guess i need to file for divorce on abandonment this monday. >Anyone know >divorce law in florida? > >i am trully heartbroken > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/index.cfm?forumid=5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/index.cfm?method=subscribe&forumid=5 Signup for the Fusion Authority news alert and keep up with the latest news in ColdFusion and related topics. http://www.fusionauthority.com/signup.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5
