Smile, be happy...and jokingly ask her out while you're talking sh** (small talking in a silly inconsequential way) one day over coffee. Take a beer if it loosens you up (do NOT GET TIPSY!) and would keep you from becoming tongue tied and getting the butterflies.
Don't think of her as some little piece of gold up on a pedestal that you'd OH SO like to take out and oh if only if only she says yes and oh what if she says no etc. etc. She's just a chick. You're laughing...you're talking about movies..."so hey would you like to go sometime?". Just like that. There's no take a deep breath, and start a conversation with the specific intention of asking her out. Take any given week...say in that week you'd like to ask her out...and talk to her. When the oppurtunity presents itself...you say the line. Movies is an ok lead-in. Anywhere that you would like to take her out though. Start talking about it (And uhh..see if she's amenable to the place first..if she doesn't like chinese then no point in asking her to a chinese place ya know ;-) )...and then," So, would you like to go sometime?". If she likes you that's all you'll need. The longer you lie in bed masturbating over her, the harder its going to be to make that first step. -Gel Also remember, that office relationships usually aren't good things. (Unless you own the company, or you're a director etc. heh heh). -----Original Message----- From: Phillip B [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] So there is this girl that works in the same building as me. I've met her a few times and shared some small talk. A woman I work with told her I had a thing for her when they had both been drinking. Ugh! Anyway, I really want to get to know her but I stink when it comes to asking women out. So does anyone have any suggestions as to how I could approach her? Did I mention that Ican be stupid shy? Phillip B. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=t:5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm?link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 This list and all House of Fusion resources hosted by CFHosting.com. The place for dependable ColdFusion Hosting. http://www.cfhosting.com
